May 2012 Weddings
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Since we're married now
So I know we talked about this before the wedding but since we got married I wonder how things have changed in the bedroom. Do you have "Sexy Time" more or less now? And are things spicier than before?
Any new products you have tried and want to share? This may be TMI but we are all married now and it's not like we don't know what married people do.
Re: Since we're married now
Sex hasn't changed too much for us since we've been married, although it slowed way down right before the wedding since we were so busy. Now its about every other day, sometimes its a quick right before bed thing, other times, its after dinner when we have a little more time....Things get more spicy if we have the time for it!
After we got engaged and started planning the wedding I was SO paranoid about getting pregnant.....it was my biggest fear (no joke I used to call my friends freaking out of I was a 1/2 a day late!) Needless to say, sex was less frequent during this time since I was so worried!
H likes/wants sex more than me, which I blame on my BC....but I am usually more in the mood when he puts the moves on me! lol
As for new products, I haven't bought any recently but I'd like to get a new vibrator....my old one is useless and bulky. I also would like to try a new lube...we use just CVS brand, nothing special stuff, and its sticky and gross.
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Our frequency hasn't really changed much, but it seems different somehow. I can't really explain it- it's like we have a deeper connection, that and the fact that there is no birth control makes it feel a little naughty.
We got some of that yours and mine or is it his and hers lube stuff from the girls at my old office and it's ok. We have a drawer full of toys that we pull out from time to time, but nothing new lately.
we were not having sex before the wedding, so there's a HUGE difference! hahaha
we only see each other on the weekends, so we get in as much as we can and still have a normal life outside the bedroom haha probably 2-3 times
he got the KY Intense but we only use it during foreplay or when he goes down on me. it makes me super sensitive, which is awesome! i really like it a lot lol
since we don't see each other during the week we send a lot of dirty texts lol that's always funny
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Doesn't it taste all weird and chemical-ey? I guess I never thought that H would use something like that when he's down there.
Missing Our July Sparkler
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BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron
H and I definitely have sex more now that we are married.
We were living with roommates when we were engaged.. so that definitely sucked the life out of sexy time. Although, H does want to do it more than I do.. I too blame it on BC, because when I'm not on it for that week of my period, I definitely want it a lot!
I like Pure Romance's Products a lot.. especially "Just Like Me."
i asked him because i thought thought the same thing. he said he can't really taste it, but sometimes it makes his tongue feel tingly haha as long as he's not complaining, i'm not complaining! ;-)
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We definitely had a spike on and right after our honeymoon and then again while I was reading the 50 Shades Trilogy
Now we've settled back into our regular routine of once or twice a week. Which, by the way, after reading yesterday's post I felt a little bad, like we aren't doing it enough or something. I know everyone's different, but it kind of bugged me, so, I'm going to start trying to initiate more. I'll let H know who to thank
We're not big into "products." Although I did get a goody bag from my bachelorette of all kinds of stuff. Maybe I'll bring some of that stuff out!
We pretty much same boat...damn those books is all i gotta say haha..hubby will be like can you put down Christian for a bit an spend time with me??? pleasee?? Im not ignoring him but its funny when he does it..im onto the 3rd book..sooo addicting...but based from the books..we have dabbled in the "bondage factor" anyways and we always trying to dominate the other...so hasnt changed anything..just more frequent lol....
We usually have more chances of sat thru wed....he works late thurs and fridays so those nights he too tired...I loved monday..2 times in a row...cant complain havent had that kind of night since the honeymoon haha
I agree too since we not using any method of birth control it does make it more naughty and the closer bond from the fact we are married now does intensify everything for me
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Once we got married it was like 4-5 times a week depending on how everything was. Now if we get 2 times a week I think it's great. We have tried new places now but it has nothing to do with being married.
No new products really but several things we would like to try. I have stuff from my bachelorette party we still haven't tried and one of these days I am looking forward to trying those.
Maybe I should look into reading 50 Shades books. Sounds like things could get spiced up with those.
I wouldn't say it's any different... maybe slightly because we are married and it's no longer a sin. I know it sounds crazy especially since we are pretty much non practicing methodists.
I definitely want a new vibrator... it's a fun way to spice things up and to use when DH is away
Not much has changed - from my PP yesterday, I am looking to switch BC possibly since I feel like I have the libido of a dried up old woman =
Also, for those talking about "products", this is a great lubricant:
http://www.amazon.com/Liquid-Silk-Personal-Lubricant-250/dp/B0006GT9WI
Just thought I'd share!