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Hi - Im a first time mom and am looking to start my registry. I was wondering if anybody had any recommendations for must haves or dont waste money on items? These stores can be a little overwhelming! Thanks!
Re: Registry
A lot of it might be trial & error as far as what your baby loves...for instance, my older son hated the bouncy seat, loved the swing. My younger son was the exact opposite. I did love this bouncy seat:
It's Bright Starts automatic bouncy seat (you push a button and the seat bounces, genius!) I loved my boppy and used it religiously for both kids (I would suggest registering for an extra cover for spit up incidents)
I didn't bother with a wipe warmer (which you'll see on a lot of the registry must-have lists). I'm really blanking on much else, it's amazing how quickly you block it all out......
Jake - 1.15.08
Liam - 5.17.11
Ditto the swaddle blankets and swing from above.
One thing I did register for but thought was a waste was the diaper champ. we ended up just getting a regular garbage can with a lid. Worked fine.
Pack & play for sure also. that was great.
Oh yeah we have a two story house and the pack & play we got has a changing table as part of it. We use it all the time it saves us a ton of trips up and down the stairs a day.
Sheet savers were awesome for the bassinet.
I got a TON of blankets after he was born as gifts, so I might suggest waiting until after the baby and buy them if you still need to.
this is often asked over on the moms side of the getting pregnant board.
also, BRU has a guide to help you with your registry.
rock n' play is most suggested from GPM. pack n play is not. we don't have the room for the latter anyways, so it doesn't matter to us.
A rock n play is great for newborn sleeping but when your baby is around 5-6 months old and you're trying to make dinner, a pack n play with some toys is a God send.
Jake - 1.15.08
Liam - 5.17.11
We used both the PnP and the Rock N Play. S slept in the RnP for several weeks. (Months?) Also, it was easier to travel with that when he was small. I wouldn't register for a separate bassinet, though. At least the PnP has functionality well down the road. S still sleeps in his in my office.
Think a little further down the road, too. Depending on when you're due, if there isn't another major gift giving holiday between Baby's birthday and 6-7 months, think about what baby may want/need before them. An excersaucer is good. (Actually, S started using his around 3 1/2 months). He also LOVED the Johny Jump up he got for Christmas...but he was actually pretty close to the weight limit at 7 months.
Here are some other suggestions. Use your best judgement based on what you want to purchase yourself, how big a shower you're having etc. (I was blessed with two showers, so I had a ton of stuff on my registry.)
High Chair
Travel High Chair
Swing (ditto gwen- get one that plugs in)
toys for a bit down to road. (My Pal Scout is pretty awesome!)
Miracle blanket/sleepers
I got tons of towels with out registering for them.
I skipped the bath tub and just got the foam mat for him to lay on in the bottom of the tub. We would then only fill the tub up about 1 - 2 inches.
books
Car seat/Infant carrier
Stroller
Breast Pump (?)
Bumbo (it has very limited usefulness, IMO, but some people swear by them.)
I found I got plenty of blankets (not swaddlers) without registering for any. I also got several packs of diapers.
Also, we didn't know what we were having, so we didn't get too many clothes on the front end, but people were abundantly generous when we got home from the hospital. So, beyond an outfit to come home from the hospital in, and a few things for the first week or two, I wouldn't stock up on too many clothes.
Good luck, and congratulations!
The most-used items we received from our registry are:
Pack N Play
Crib Sheets
Waterproof pads in various sizes
Bassinet (we didn't register for it, it was a spontaneous gift, and it was a life-saver. we couldn't fit a pnp in our bedroom)
Swaddle Blankets (register for sizes S/M and L)
Diaper style burp cloths (they look like the old-style cloth diapers, we use them constantly)
Bath tub or Bath sling
Feeding supplies (breastpump, bottles, bottle brushes, dishwasher basket)
Boppy and 1 or 2 extra covers
Nail Scissors (not clippers, they're easier to use)
Travel High Chair (we JUST started using this. I don't think a giant high chair is necessary anymore) We have a really nice Fisher Price one that basically looks like the top of a "traditional" high chair.
Diaper Genie Elite w/ refills
Travel System (car seat stroller combo)
Sound machine (like this: http://www.walmart.com/ip/HoMedics-SoundSpa-Lullaby-Sound-Machine-with-Picture-Projection/5913225) We have this specific one. I thought it was a weird gift when we got it. Out of desperation and sleepless night # gajillion, we tried it and he hasn't slept w/o the "rain" sound since. We have two dogs and hard wood floors so this dampens most noises and lets him sleep.
Have fun registering and congratulations!