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BOTB just can't help themselves

SO I'll ask you ladies. When, in the distant future, I TTC, will it be better to have had my belly button ring out for a year or two so it can completely heal up, or does it matter? If it doesn't matter I'll just leave it in til I find out I'm pg, because I love it.

Re: BOTB just can't help themselves

  • I took mine out waaaaaaay before I got PG.  Like 3 years before.  I still have a hole.  So I'd say wait until you want to take it out.

    I think that "it'll close up" crap is myth.  I'm STILL pissed. =)

  • They are crazy over there.

    I will answer your question!  I just had my belly button ring taken out last week.  I wanted to keep it as long as I could.  Eventually it just got kind of uncomfortable and it seems everyday like my bb is about to pop out, although it hasn't yet.  I don't think you need to worry about it completely healing up before you TTC.

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  • I took mine out for an MRI in March, and I haven't been able to get it back in.   I think my belly ring days are over, sadly.  I loved it b/c no one expected me to have it.  I never wore crazy stuff, just the original ring.  But I got it after I originally lost 25 lbs, so it was very meaningful to me that I felt good enough to get one :)

    But yeah, that hole is annoying.

  • imageKateAggie:

    I took mine out waaaaaaay before I got PG.  Like 3 years before.  I still have a hole.  So I'd say wait until you want to take it out.

    I think that "it'll close up" crap is myth.  I'm STILL pissed. =)

    Considering this, I will just keep on enjoying it. Did you get a stretch mark where the hole was? 

  • I didn't get a single stretch mark.  Please don't hate me. Wink
  • I didnt have my belly button ring when I was pregnant. But a friend of mine did and she took hers out sometime during the pregnancy. This was 6 years ago and her hole still has not closed out. She decided not to put it back in.

    I will go to my grave with mine!!! Nobody expects me to have one so I guess that is why I love it. I got it for my 39th birthday! The only time it has come out was for surgeries and it goes back in asap!!!

  • I took mine out a little more than 2 years ago. ?I'd had it close to 10 years, but it basically closed up within 6 months. ?I probably could still get a ring in, but it wouldn't be easy, and it would probably hurt a lot. ?
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  • meg- my mom got hers done when she was 39 also! and a tatoo in the same year, lol. i was like 15 at the time, and was jealous, LOL.
  • I left mine in until about 8 months.  I got a special pregnancy ring (google it).  I took it out because the skin around it started to get black (like the linea negra) and I was afraid it would get worse and be permanent.  It was not!  The black went away within a month or two of giving birth.  Sadly, my hole did close up a little - enough that I can't get a ring back in without having it repierced, but still visible.  I keep bugging DH that he needs to buy me a new one.  I think I'll remind him of that tonight.....
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    Anything you can achieve through hard work, you could also just buy.
  • You don't have to take the ring out. They make special (long and bendy) rings for pregnancy.
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  • Do you guys think it also depends on how big you get pregnant also? And how much your belly button pops? Because considering those things maybe I'll just try and keep it and get one of these maternity ones you suggest. Assuming I still love it in the 3-however many more years til I am pregnant.
  • They seem to work pretty well. Two of the women I work with used them when they were pg (which is how I know about them). They both got huge and were still wearing them. One used hers twice with great success.

    The post bit is made so you can cut it shorter if you want (twisting the bead on it will create the threading). They start out pretty long, so I think they could accomodate a pretty large belly.

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  • imageKateAggie:
    I didn't get a single stretch mark.  Please don't hate me. Wink

    Sorry, I hate you ;)

     Nobody ever told me that you could get stretch marks the day OF delivery - I only got a few on my hips throughout my pregnancy, but apparently my skin stretched so much as the baby was coming out, I got a bunch on my lower belly that very day. Ugh.
     

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  • imagetalltalltrees:

    imageKateAggie:
    I didn't get a single stretch mark.  Please don't hate me. Wink

    Sorry, I hate you ;)

     Nobody ever told me that you could get stretch marks the day OF delivery - I only got a few on my hips throughout my pregnancy, but apparently my skin stretched so much as the baby was coming out, I got a bunch on my lower belly that very day. Ugh.
     

    ditto.  I made it through 9 damn months with nothing.  Then after 12 hous of labor, they come?! I was pissed.

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