May 2012 Weddings
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Awkward, Wedding Check Bounced

We deposited all of our wedding cash and checks on July 14th. This morning DH was checking our accounts and noticed that we had been charged $5 an then another $50 was taken out of our savings account we set up to put all wedding money in. DH calls the bank and finds out that one of the checks bounced! We are supposed to be getting the check in the mail so we are not 100% sure who it is, but 4 people gave us $50 checks. 

 

Obviously this person has been notified by their bank of the bounced check, but what is the etiquette on this? What are we supposed to do? 

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Re: Awkward, Wedding Check Bounced

  • Thats really awkward.  I think I might see if they say something to you first, and if they don't say anything I might just let it be?  I know that I only keep enough in my checking account to cover checks, because I don't make interest on it, so they might not have realized you didn't cash it yet and did have money in there anymore.
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  • That happened to me once--with a graduation check. It was really really awkward. It was one of my family members--an aunt. I am not close to her and I really hate confrontation. It is so annoying they take a charge out of of your account for depositing a check you did not know would bounce. You got off lucky--I was charged about 12 bucks. 

    I didn't say anything and she never did...

    I guess it depends on who wrote the check

  • WE did too! It was from one of his family friends so it was super awkard. I deciced not to do anything but I did fight my bank and got my money back. Its a "crime" that they charge you for someone else mistake.  The lady got her noticed and then fb messaged me how sorry she was and she was sending other one...never got it...but ill never say anything. ha.
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  • Turns out it was SIL, she actually told DH that she was switching banks and that it needed to be cashed ASAP... whoops. She called him today and it all got straightened out, she will be writing us a new check.

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