May 2012 Weddings
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Who else am I gonna ask?

So things are calming down around here and I am now able to refocus back on normal life a little. And well I realize that I am now 10 days late! Also that I haven't been visited by AF since MAY! I know things have been so stressful around here and normally I would just be like that's all it is but since I'm not on BC and we aren't trying but not preventing there is always a possibility. 

Backstory: I have never been regular except here the last year or so when everything was completely normal. I did miss April being it the month before the wedding and then May came late so that threw off June and was supposed to start back this month and nothing.

So now my question is should I be concerned? Or take a test just to be sure or just wait and see what happens? 

I'm not really worried just I thought I would bounce this off of yall and see what everyone else thinks. I haven't told H since I feel like he has enough on his mind.

Re: Who else am I gonna ask?

  • whoa!  that's kinda scary/exciting!

    i would take a test if it were me, because if i didn't do that to at least rule it out, i would be thinking about it CONSTANTLY and wouldn't be able to focus on anything else.

    then if it comes up negative you don't have to tell anyone (except us... you must update  lol) but if it's positive, well... that's different :)

  • Stress'll do that too ya.... And let's be honest, I'm thinkin you've been a little stressed lately. But! Like you said if you haven't been making the efforts to prevent pregnancy there could always be that chance. Myself, I'd probably go get a test just for peace of mind. As for sharing with hubby, that depends on you guys. My hubby would wanna know if I was thinkin I was pregnant. 
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  • I agree I would take a test just because I would want to know!

    I also do things that are bad for you when you're preggo like drink coffee and beer and eat sushi so I'd want to stop those ASAP.

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  • Take the test :) and then check in with us!!!

    Stress will do a ton of strange things to your body and you have had plenty of it :)

    Good luck!!!! 

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  • I never get mine. My GYN says because I been on the pill so long and apprently pretty common and nothing to worry about however I freak out every month because Im not the BEST at taking it so she ended up giving me free tests so I dont stress every month. I would just take one so you dont stress. Its up to you to tell your hubby or not. Mine is used to be stressing about it at this point. ha.
    "Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly"
  • I'd grab a few tests and just see. I too wuld be thinking about it constantly until I knew for sure.

    Definitely update us on the results.. exciting times for you if it is positive :) 

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  • Take a test. This happened to me once and it was all I could think about. Taking a test won't hurt ya. Grab one of the early response tests if you are unsure when it might have happened. Stress will do some wild things and the more you wonder...the more it builds up! Haha. I was stressing over taking the test so much one time that it never. Literally after I had a negative test--boom...there it was.
  • i agree with PP's.... take a test! it will give you peace of mind if nothing else... and i kinda agree with you, i wouldn't tell H until you know one way or the other... he's had a CRAZY couple months and i wouldn't wana put anything else on him until it's set in stone... your body will do crazy wacky things to you when you're stressed.... and please, update soon! good luck dear! :):)
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  • I would take a test to set your mind at ease either way. Tests usually come in a package of two and aren't expensive. And if it comes out negative, you have another one handy! You have been under a lot of stress, and it could be from that. But if you think there's a possibility, I'd just do it.
  • I agree with pp mancila.  Take a test so you know for sure what is going on.  To say that you have been under stress is a bit of an understatement so it most certainly could just be that.  However, with no prevention, it could just as easily be positive. 

    Please keep us up to date.....

     

  • Way back (before H) I had a preggo scare...long story short, was taken advantage of by a 'friend' and then was super paraniod about it, then missed my period. That made me panic, thankfull I had a great friend in my life who convinced me that if I bought a test there was sitll a chance it could be negative, and so I did and it did come back nagative.

    All that to say.....stress can definately make you miss a period, and especially if thats a possibility it can be more stressfull to not know then to just take the test and get a (mostly accurate) answer.

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    whoa!  that's kinda scary/exciting!

    i would take a test if it were me, because if i didn't do that to at least rule it out, i would be thinking about it CONSTANTLY and wouldn't be able to focus on anything else.

    then if it comes up negative you don't have to tell anyone (except us... you must update  lol) but if it's positive, well... that's different :)

    This is what I was going to say!  I'd be going nuts without some sort of answer.  And stress can make throw things off, too.  Let us know what you find out =] 

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  • I would definitely go get a test! Keep us updated :)
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