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Weight loss= bigger d*ck.
So. My DH has recently lost over 60 pounds. I'm incredibly proud of him, he looks great. I've noticed recently that his d*ck has gotten bigger (thicker and longer). Most people wouldn't complain about something like this, but I'm having a problem with it during sex. It feels like he's now hitting my cervix, and it is really painful at times.
Does anyone else have an issue with this? Anything you can tell me that's bad about this happening?
Re: Weight loss= bigger d*ck.
This is an optical illusion.
He probably had a very large gut --- a big beer belly is bound to obscure his privates a bit.
There is no way he could have anatomically grown larger. Not possible.
Try other positions.
If the pain still persists, see a doc. Perhaps you've run into a medical problem very recently and it merits a doc's intervention.
For once I agree with TarponMonoxide.
See a doctor. His penis did not grow.
The structure of the penis is connected to the bones of the pelvis so any extra weight means the the penis has to stick out thru it,...so overweight men effectively have a pad of fat around the penis thus making it 'shorter' both visually and when penetrating a woman. This is a recognised possible cause of male infertiltiy,..some men just can't get far enough in to do a good job because their fat pad prevents deep penetration.
Once the surplus weight is lost the penis can be anything up to TWO INCHES longer in real terms.
In addition, when men lose a lot of weight their hearts are able to better control their blood supply so this, coupled with better all round fitness means much better quality erections.
When erection quality is good, the size is larger, so this, combined with the extra 'usable length' means that he is indeed putting considerably more penis inside you !! ......Perhaps as much as 30% 'extra' volume!
Makes sense. I'd say try different positions, and make sure he's aware that he doesn't have to shove the whole thing in.
Makes perfect sense to me- thanks- we'll be trying out new positions to avoid the whole "you're slamming my cervix into my throat" feeling. Haha thanks again!