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I am a bitter betty today :(

I know that compared to some people my life is pretty good, but I can't help this nagging feeling that my life is a mess!  So, this is my whine...you can skip this if you want.

I am annoyed that I have people in my life and things are handed to them like no tomorrow.   I just feel that people around me have good things going on in their life.  I am happy for them, really.  BUT I am annoyed because why do I have to struggle so  much so everything. 

 

Sigh...vent over. :(  Here is some candy that I wish I had.

 

Re: I am a bitter betty today :(

  • Mmmm, that candy looks tasty.

    I know what you mean. Both DH and I know people like that, they get things handed to them. It is frustrating when you have to work so hard for what you have.  It makes me wonder how happy those people are. Do they have satisfaction as they didn't work for everything they have? Hopefully your day gets better.  

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  • Sometimes I think the people don't realize how good they really have it.  I have 2 stories that I typed out with people being handed something and then deleted them, cause I knew it wouldn't help me feel better. I think I am feel more of the "why me" syndrome along with "why do I have to work so hard."  I am hoping that is passes and is just high due to hormones and stress.
  • I am having this feeling too right now. All these people I graduated with got jobs... of course, most of them are moving, but still, I still haven't gotten an interview, when many other people have.
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  • Why me......

    1. Why did my cat whom I loved so much have to die?

    2. Why did I have to get rejected for that teaching position?

    3. Why can't my DH get hired as teacher?

    4. Why do I have to have fertility problems?

    5. Why am I overweight when I try to be so healthy?

    6. Why am I tired so often?

    And the list goes on and on. I have terrible luck. Nothing is ever easy for me. NOTHING.


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  • imagejjbmstinco:
    I am annoyed that I have people in my life and things are handed to them like no tomorrow.   I just feel that people around me have good things going on in their life.  I am happy for them, really.  BUT I am annoyed because why do I have to struggle so  much so everything.

     

    If it makes you feel better, Joy and I feel the same way sometimes.  And I'm sure somewhere, there is somebody looking at what we have and feeling the same way.

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    imagejjbmstinco:
    I am annoyed that I have people in my life and things are handed to them like no tomorrow.   I just feel that people around me have good things going on in their life.  I am happy for them, really.  BUT I am annoyed because why do I have to struggle so  much so everything.

    If it makes you feel better, Joy and I feel the same way sometimes.  And I'm sure somewhere, there is somebody looking at what we have and feeling the same way. 

    I think the average person feels this way at some time or another in their life. I know I have. It's okay to feel this way as long as you don't let it overwhelm you.

  • We all have moments like this Jen. When they happen to be I just keep thinking that everything happens for a reason and that things have to get bad before they get good and when things are really bad I just keeping focusing on how really great they are going to be soon.
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