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S/O Monday Morning Poll: Bedtimes
Do you and your H have a routine? Do you go to bed at the same time each night or does it fluctuate? Do you always go to bed together or does one of you go to bed earlier than the other?
We have almost always gone to bed together, but we don't have a 'bedtime' really. Whenever someone gets tired, we'll head into the bedroom, together. If the other one of us isn't really tired yet, we have a TV in there, or we'll read, or H will try to get some work done. But we almost always will go to bed together. Obviously there are some exceptions, but for the most part, this is our normal.
This is new to me (or was, 3 years ago, when we moved in, haha). With my past relationships, we wouldn't go to bed together, but when one person got tired, they would go to bed, and the other person would join them when they were ready. I never pictured going to bed at the same time as my SO... I'm not sure why, but with H, I'm glad we do it. I really enjoy our moments of quiet before one of us falls asleep. 
Re: S/O Monday Morning Poll: Bedtimes
H and I pretty much always go to bed around the same time during the week.. .about 10:30-11'ish. We do have an evening routine... which makes us seem kinda old but it works for us. H usually takes the dog out to pee, while I check his food and water for the night.. then we meet in bed. haha
Before I moved in H would be up till all hours of the night... but now he likes coming to bed with me.. i'm usually the one to initiate the going to bed. The odd time i'll go to bed and he just really won't be ready, so he'll stay up and read or do whatever he was doing.
On the weekend, it's pretty much just whenever one of us gets tired... then we both go to bed. I love going to bed with H... we have the best conversations in bed.. we have since the beginning... just the 2 of us.. no distractions... it's great.
H and I will almost always go to bed together, like 99.99% of the time. Whenever one of us is tired, the other will go to bed. We'll usually watch tv, read a book, or talk for a little bit and then go to sleep.
On rare occasions, I'll have to get up for work absurdly early, and I'll be in bed by 9p.m. On those nights, H will stay up and just come to bed later. He always kisses me goodnight though.... even if I don't know it
Do you and your H have a routine? Do you go to bed at the same time each night or does it fluctuate? Do you always go to bed together or does one of you go to bed earlier than the other?
We both go to bed around 10-11 during the week. We always go to bed at the same time now. When we first started our jobs, H would stay out on the couch for awhile, and when he would come in I would always wake up, and then couldn't go back to sleep.. so now he has to go to sleep with me! Plus, I really enjoy the time right before we fall asleep, where we just talk awhile and cuddle
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