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SAHM's...when your kids started preschool

DD has been home with me for the past 3 years and is starting preschool in the fall.  I'm the one having anxiety over it!  It's only 2 days a week, 2 hours each day, but I've never left her with "strangers" before.  Any tips to calm my nerves?  Anything I should be preparing her for? 
 

Re: SAHM's...when your kids started preschool

  • Lanna turned 4 the day she started school, but I can say for certain I was more anxious about it than she was. The only tears that were shed were my own! I work 3 days a week, but I had never left her with a stranger before that. And even though I trusted that she was in good hands b/c I spent time researching, I was still nervous. And it was also just a bittersweet milestone to be sending our little girl to school.

    With Lanna, we talked a bit about it, but I tried not to make too big of a deal about it. She's like me in that she gets nervous when she overthinks things. I put the date on her calendar and reminded her that it was coming up occassionally, but that's all. She was excited that she got to bring a treat in (for her bday), so the focus that morning was on that. Then when I dropped her off, the teacher immediately engaged her in coloring and that was it. I didn't sneak out (I said bye and kissed her quickly), but I didn't linger. Although there were days she complained about going, she never once made a scene at dropoff. It's hectic sometimes getting her there on time, but it's worth while b/c she has learned so much and she loves the interaction with the other kids.

    Basically I'm saying that I'd try your best not to make too much of a big deal out of it. It'll just be harder on both of you :) Hopefully she makes the transition easily, but if she doesn't you'll just have to cross that bridge when you come to it.

  • I was going to start DS1 2 days a week this fall but since he wont be 3 until Sept. 6, he isn't eligible for any of the preschools I've found.  We have to wait a whole year because his birthday is 5 days late.  Oh well, in a year we should be able to afford the preschool I want to send him to and not have to settle for a lower choice, albeit it still a good preschool.

    I did look at some of the 2 year old preschools too....but I decided their classrooms weren't really preschool.

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    I was going to start DS1 2 days a week this fall but since he wont be 3 until Sept. 6, he isn't eligible for any of the preschools I've found.  We have to wait a whole year because his birthday is 5 days late.  Oh well, in a year we should be able to afford the preschool I want to send him to and not have to settle for a lower choice, albeit it still a good preschool.

    I did look at some of the 2 year old preschools too....but I decided their classrooms weren't really preschool.

    DD's bday is 9/7 -- I feel your pain! We found a school that let her start with the 4yos and luckily they have a step up program that is in between preschool and kindergarten, so she's not repeating the same cirriculum twice.

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