The two of you havent had sex in a while? (your while could be a month, while others' while could be a week...so I'm keeping it vague).
H tends to get short with me and make passive aggressive comments. Like, I'll be in the bathroom brushing my teeth and he will say something under his breath as he's leaving the room about it. Or he will just generally have a look of pissiness that needs no explanation--when the man needs to get some he's not too good at hiding it. I'm getting really annoyed at him being childish about it. Most of the time we are on the same time frame sexually, so this isnt a constant issue. But when it is, he's a bear to be around.
Re: How does your H/SO act when
He just whines that we never have sex anymore.
The longest the man has gone without sex since we first started having it is probably three weeks a couple of times in the last 12 years, because I was on antibiotics for one reason or another and they negated my birth control.
Ditto.
Oh god, I am your husband. I KNOW that's ridiculous and it's not a lack of love, but if we have a fight or something, I positively need that to feel like everything is ok and we're back to normal.
Same.