June 2012 Weddings
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
If you could change one thing about H, what would it be and why? (you cant say nothing)
Warning
No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
Re: QOTD: 08.08.12
He has a habit of settling. He feels he is responsible for everything and he needs to make sure everyone is happy, even if he isn't. And he usually accomplishes this by settling for less than he is worth (his career is a prime example). I wish he could see himself through my eyes and know that he is worth more than he gives himself credit for.
That and he is really closed off with his emotions. He really hates discussing things when they bother him. I wish he would just tell me sometimes instead of thinking I am a mind reader. (case in point: with wedding planning, something would really stress him out, but instead of telling me so I could do something about it, he would keep it to himself and then bring it up a month later when it was too late to do anything about it)
June 2012 August Siggy Challenge: Favourite Pro Pic (I couldn't choose just one!)
My Blog
This. And, he feels the need to tell me every time he does a chore too. Its like hooray for you.
My Blog
It drives me crazy when he plays on his computer/phone/ipad while I'm trying to talk to him.
It drives me insane when he starts something, does it for 10 minutes, then takes a break. He'll say "oh I cleaned for 3 hours today I'm so exhausted" but he did something that would have taken me 45 minutes! If you just plow through, it will take you less time!
I also hate it that he doesn't ever ask questions - both of other people, and of himself. He'll feel a certain way about something, for example not liking a house we looked at, but he can't explain his feelings and it's like he refuses to think past "I don't like it". Also whenever something happens in his family or friends' lives, he never gets any details! He knows I'm going to ask!
H is literally the sorest loser I know. I am competitive and I don't like to lose, but H takes it to a whole new level. He pouts when he loses any sort of competition. Even something as insignificant as a card game with family.
Ditto this. He has gotten better, but he still scares me sometimes. Thankfully he asks me before doing most things but then I feel like a dream-crusher when I suggest we wait.
It's really annoying right now because our birthdays are next month and he keeps saying he's going to go get something I have in mind for his gift!! :-p
He is messy. I appreciate that he cooks but he makes SUCH a huge mess. I appreciate that he helps with laundry but he procrastinates on putting away his laundry. When he has a snack and is finished with the bowl or wrapper, he just leaves them (instead of picking it up and putting it away when he gets up to do something else). Perhaps I am anal about neatness and cleanliness, but he is the opposite.
(P.S. Glad I finally found you guys... I didn't know how to get over here from TK!)
Agreed!