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Do most people put down 20%?

DH is military so we aren't looking to purchase a home until he gets out (unless we get stationed back in our home state sometime). So we have some time to put money away for a DP. We are currently stationed in WA but southern California is home for us. We have what we think is a great savings so far. But when I look at housing prices today in CA and think about having to put down 20% we're looking at $80,000 to $100,000.

Do people really put that much down? My God. And if the housing market starts going up by the time we buy, we'll be looking at even more.

Re: Do most people put down 20%?

  • It probably varies among different regions/areas, but where I live and among my friends who have purchased recently, they have put down anywhere between 10% and 20%. DH and I put down 30%.
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  • I think it really depends on your circle. Because we are mid-twenties and for us, as well as pretty much all our friends, this is our first home, it is not common to put that much down. We put 5% down and some of our friends put 3.5% down.


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  • We had planned to put down 20%, and we were saving to that effect.  One inheritance later, we increased our budget and put down 40% to keep the mortgage smaller.  But we had planned on 20%, and we were almost there.
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  • My DH (also military) and I put down 16%, our buyer is putting nothing down and that concerned me GREATLY but our atty assured us in this market/economy a lot of people are doing FHA (VA in our case) loans with nothing down. Even if you get stationed in your home state I would advise you not to buy... we did and now 5 years later we are losing 35,000 cash on our "investment." 
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    My DH (also military) and I put down 16%, our buyer is putting nothing down and that concerned me GREATLY but our atty assured us in this market/economy a lot of people are doing FHA (VA in our case) loans with nothing down. Even if you get stationed in your home state I would advise you not to buy... we did and now 5 years later we are losing 35,000 cash on our "investment." 

    Did you put down the 16% on a VA loan?

    We would only buy in our home state if it was where we planned to stay after DH gets out.

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    My DH (also military) and I put down 16%, our buyer is putting nothing down and that concerned me GREATLY but our atty assured us in this market/economy a lot of people are doing FHA (VA in our case) loans with nothing down. Even if you get stationed in your home state I would advise you not to buy... we did and now 5 years later we are losing 35,000 cash on our "investment." 

    Did you put down the 16% on a VA loan?

    We would only buy in our home state if it was where we planned to stay after DH gets out.

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  • No.  In my area, 20% is equivalent to the price of an entire house in other markets.  It's unrealistic and unusual for a first time buyer to be able to save $80-$100k for a downpayment.  It can happen but it isn't typical.   

     

  • In our area our realtor said that about 90% of the homes buyers are VA or FHA so they are putting 0-3.5% down.  We are doing a conventional with 5% down. 

  • We got a conventional loan with 5% down this summer. We have to pay PMI (private mortgage insurance) until we reach that magic 20% mark.
  • I think 5-10% is probably the most common, but if you have the time and are able to put down 20...you are a lot a head of the game. By putting down 20% A) morgage payments will be less, B) Banks/lenders are more trusting of you and C) this might only apply to some areas, but you dont pay as many fees/closing costs in the transfer for putting down 20% or more.

    So if you can, do it. We put down 20 and are sooo glad we did, even just to have the piece of mind that we can hold the morgage on one income (so my income will just be supplimental) and that we didn't pay closing costs at all. 

  • In CA, especially the LA area, no, most people don't put down 20%. It's very atypical; especially for 1st time buyers. However, DH and I were able to put down 20% on our current home (which is our first home) which equated to $114k for us. But we were only able to do so by sacrificing tremendously and saving $ like crazy.

    We both have good-paying jobs as professionals but we lived with my mom in her apartment for a few years and paid minimal expenses. Rent for us was only $350. This was about 4 years of saving and living like that. If we had lived in our own apartment I seriously doubt we would have been able to save up 20% in 4 years for the area we wanted to buy a house in. In fact, with the exception of one couple we know, we are the only people we know that have put 20% down for a house in LA County based solely on saving $ and not borrowing from our 401ks.

    The other couple we know who did put 20% down of saved money ($130k for them) have good jobs like us but they also lived frugally for years in order to save money. Although, they were able to live more comfortably in that time by renting out the back house of the wife's parents for $450/month. DH and I had to share a 10x10 bedroom in a tiny apartment, lol However, this allowed us to still travel, live debt free, and pay for our entire wedding almost completely by ourselves. It was a sacrifice that was well worth it.The only problem was, since we never had our own place prior to buying our home, we literally had to furnish and buy every single appliance we needed when we finally did buy. That was definitely a big financial hit.   



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  • Too many people and young families are locked into a property that they cannot sell these days, because banks are offering foreclosed homes in the area at fire sale prices. At I35 Home Buyers, we think that you have a right to move on with your life without being chained to a piece of real estate that you don?t want or can no longer afford. Life changes, and it?s not your fault! buy your house buy your house
  • 6 couples within our circle of friends have purchased homes in the last 4 years. We are the only ones from that group of 6 who put 20% down. Since we live in the DC metro, which is quite an expensive area, we had to bring 6 figures to the closing table (an amount equivalent to 1 year of the higher of our 2 salaries). We had both been saving since before we ever met, and once we decided to buy a house together and get married, our only purchases were for the wedding or the house. We've skipped vacations, don't eat out a lot, pack our lunches for work, buy clothes from discount stores only when we absolutely need them, etc. All of the sacrafices are worth it to us because our mortgage can be handled on the lower of our two salaries. So one of us could be long-term unemployed and we would still be financially stable. Having that peace of mind is invaluable to us. If we had put less money down, we would have a larger monthly payment and in a bad spot we would be a bit screwed.
  • In our area (tri-state area), 20% for your average 3 bedroom 2 bathroom would be well over $60K. We're putting down 5%, but a lot of people get FHA loans and put down 3.5%. I say, put down as much as you can afford because saving up for awhile and then having a smaller monthly payment is better than jumping into the market right away and having to pay out the nose every month. But sometimes 20% or even 10% is just not possible. Don't feel guilty about not putting down 20% Do what makes sense and feels right to you!
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  • We saved my income  - all of it - for downpayment fund. Your payments will be higher each month for the length of your mortgage when you put down less than 20%.

    In addition to the downpayment, you need closing costs, moving costs, start up costs, repair/renovation costs, decorating/furniture/appliances, tools, lawn care items, out door furniture ---- and a good emergency fund in place after you close

    When do you want to be mortgage free?  Figure the # years after purchase and either finance for less than 30 years or add extra to the principal each month to be mortgage free sooner.

    If home ownership is important to you as a goal - start now by being careful with your spending and add more to your savings every month.  Pay off consumer debt.

    Being a home owner is so much more than the mortgage payment.  Be prepared before you buy.

  • Not in the past few years most haven't, no. It depends greatly on what State you live in, and what price point you are looking to buy. Where I live (midwest) right now people of average means are putting down between 5-10%.
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  • We are planning to put down 30-50%. . .but the home we want will only cost us $150k.
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