Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
I want to thank many of the ppl here
I want to just write a thank you in general to many of the women on this board. I don't know all your names, Tarponmon I think for one , and many others really helped me to see that what I lost in my divorce really wasn't a loss. It was a gain and a chance to have something better that I deserve. That there really are people and men out there that treat women with respect,love and gratitude.
My friends and family are great and have been there for me but sometimes you just need to hear it from other people. And see other peoples stories. People might not remember but I am the one whose husband was abusive and then cheated and I tound him with his wedding ring off one morning after being out till 3 am when I was at home with our 3 wk old son.
I wont say I am totally healed, that process will probably take years but I no longer feel that raw total pain I felt. I dont think I have cried over him in a couple weeks. I have cried when our kids have to leave to visit him but that will probably happen for years.
So for all of you who are strangers to me. Thank you. You help people so much when you probably don't even realize it.
Re: I want to thank many of the ppl here
Nice words! Glad things are workig out for you.