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Help please. From 2-3 times a day

to him not able. He says it's him but so hard not to feel it's me. 
m/c 3/07-7 weeks, m/c 5/07-9 weeks, ds 09/08, ds 05/10, m/c 10/11-9 weeks BabyFruit Ticker

Re: Help please. From 2-3 times a day

  • No body can help you if you leave cryptic messages, of half thoughts on the board.
  • If he's suddenly not able to (get it up, stay hard, finish? you didn't specify), he needs a physical, pronto.
  • imageHalle76:
    to him not able. He says it's him but so hard not to feel it's me. 


    I am guessing English is not your primary language.

    YOu need to give us more backstory; I had to dig through your prior posts to see if there might be a reason for what's going on -- turns out you are quite pregnant. Maybe your pregancy is a factor.

    Other reasons, besides a psychological reason or a health reason: he might be getting his from elsewhere and quie often, hence the reason why he can't get it up afterwards. Mind you that this is just a long shot.

     The next time you ask for advice on these boards, include backstory. YOu will get a much better result that way. gl.

  • Sorry I did not give more information. We talked and communication definitely is key. He explained it was stress. Work has not been good, his brother is in trouble and it's really bringing him down since he cannot help. He told me over and over it's him and it's embarrassing to not be able. I know it sounded crazy bc it was only five days without. He asked me not to stop loving him and please be there bc he feels awful. Yesterday things turned around. He was back. I was patient and it looks like everything is ok again. 

    Again, I am sorry I shot out uh a brief description. I do appreciate your reading my post and responding. Hopefully we stay positive and continue to talk when we have issues. 

    m/c 3/07-7 weeks, m/c 5/07-9 weeks, ds 09/08, ds 05/10, m/c 10/11-9 weeks BabyFruit Ticker
  • Sorry I did not give more information. We talked and communication definitely is key. He explained it was stress. Work has not been good, his brother is in trouble and it's really bringing him down since he cannot help. He told me over and over it's him and it's embarrassing to not be able. I know it sounded crazy bc it was only five days without. He asked me not to stop loving him and please be there bc he feels awful. Yesterday things turned around. He was back. I was patient and it looks like everything is ok again. 

    Again, I am sorry I shot out such a brief description. I do appreciate your reading my post and responding. Hopefully we stay positive and continue to talk when we have issues. 

    m/c 3/07-7 weeks, m/c 5/07-9 weeks, ds 09/08, ds 05/10, m/c 10/11-9 weeks BabyFruit Ticker
  • imageHalle76:

    Sorry I did not give more information. We talked and communication definitely is key. He explained it was stress. Work has not been good, his brother is in trouble and it's really bringing him down since he cannot help. He told me over and over it's him and it's embarrassing to not be able. I know it sounded crazy bc it was only five days without. He asked me not to stop loving him and please be there bc he feels awful. Yesterday things turned around. He was back. I was patient and it looks like everything is ok again. 

    Again, I am sorry I shot out uh a brief description. I do appreciate your reading my post and responding. Hopefully we stay positive and continue to talk when we have issues. 



    Only 5 days???

    I know plenty of nonpregnant couples who have gone much longer than 5 days without sex. As you can see passion wanes and stress is a factor.

    Heavy drinkiing can cause erection problems; so can various psychological reasons.
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