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Tell us how you REALLY feel.

A girl I went to high school with just posted this:

"The welfare system makes me SICK.  Anyone on it makes me SICK (who have working arms and legs). Unemployed and uneducated people, please do us a favor and do NOT  vote for the presidential election this year." 

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Re: Tell us how you REALLY feel.

  • I believe I'd have to go ahead and defriend that moron. 
  • Well I certainly hope she never ever loses her job or gets old, sick, hurt, etc and needs a little help. 
  • Yeah, she got defriended. It's amazing how she fails to think about the people that legitimately need the program and dont abuse it.  Not everyone on welfare is a lazy sack.  Sure there are the abusers...but that doesn't mean that it doesn't help people that are down and trying to help themselves.
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  • imageBoyMom21:
    Yeah, she got defriended. It's amazing how she fails to think about the people that legitimately need the program and dont abuse it.  Not everyone on welfare is a lazy sack.  Sure there are the abusers...but that doesn't mean that it doesn't help people that are down and trying to help themselves.

    See, the thing is, even when it is being abused, it can help give their kids a chance. My mom definitely abused the welfare system, but without it I would have just had less of a chance. It's not like she would have quit buying drugs or gambling and started magically managing money like a responsible adult.  So yeah, she abused it and I got to stay in school instead of dropping out to help pay bills (which my older sister nearly had to do).  Best case scenario, I think we would have ended up wards of the state (at a much, much greater cost to taxpayer dollars). 

     

  • imageWendyToo:

    imageBoyMom21:
    Yeah, she got defriended. It's amazing how she fails to think about the people that legitimately need the program and dont abuse it.  Not everyone on welfare is a lazy sack.  Sure there are the abusers...but that doesn't mean that it doesn't help people that are down and trying to help themselves.

    See, the thing is, even when it is being abused, it can help give their kids a chance. My mom definitely abused the welfare system, but without it I would have just had less of a chance. It's not like she would have quit buying drugs or gambling and started magically managing money like a responsible adult.  So yeah, she abused it and I got to stay in school instead of dropping out to help pay bills (which my older sister nearly had to do).  Best case scenario, I think we would have ended up wards of the state (at a much, much greater cost to taxpayer dollars). 

     

    I don't think many people realize how disproportionately poverty affects children.  In the 2010 Census, children made up 24% of the total population but 36% of the population living in poverty.  I am willing to accept some abuse of the system in order to give those kids (like Wendy) a chance to break the cycle of poverty.

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