Relationships
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

relationships

This is my first time reading post on the nest. I think this is a good support system for newlyweds.  Thanks

Re: relationships

  • no one told me when I got married I would loose my friends. I love my husband but I enjoyed spending time with my girl friends. Now I feel like my bff has deserted me and I feel a little lonely.
  • Is your bff married? She may just feel out of the loop now that your married.

    Also on the other side of it, sometimes when women get married they get so caught up in her husband that she may forget to keep in touch with friends.

    Wedding Countdown Ticker Image and video hosting by TinyPic Follow Me on Pinterest PitaPata Dog tickers my read shelf:
    Jen's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)
  • Thanks for responding. she is not married. I have called and set up dinners with her since the wedding but her response time is triple what it use to be. Also she prefers now to text instead of having a real voice conversation. We have been good friends since we were teens. Now we are in our 40's.

  • That's really weird.  I wonder what's going on with her that she's trying to keep from you.
    image
  • Same thing happened to me. My bff is not married and is now always busy.  We have to plan a month in advance to have coffee.  I hope you find some married friends. 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imagevbethea:

    Thanks for responding. she is not married. I have called and set up dinners with her since the wedding but her response time is triple what it use to be. Also she prefers now to text instead of having a real voice conversation. We have been good friends since we were teens. Now we are in our 40's.

     It's probably because she's feeling left out..figuratively speaking. You're married. She's not. Did you guys spend more time together when you were not married?

    My best suggestion would be to set up a date to sit and talk. I wouldn't suggest a bar (too noisy). Maybe a quiet restaurant to talk about what's going through your head and her's to figure it out once and for all.

     Best of luck my dear.

    Wedding Countdown Ticker Image and video hosting by TinyPic Follow Me on Pinterest PitaPata Dog tickers my read shelf:
    Jen's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards