Relationships
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I have a lot of experience dealing with with people like this - my father is extremely narcissistic and controlling. I watched my mother try to go along with what he wanted and give in to everything for 19 years. It ended badly in divorce.
I don't mean to say that your relationship will end badly, but I will tell you this - do not become a doormat and give in. Stand your ground and require things of him that make it very clear that you feel in control of your future and that you know you deserve to be treated with respect.
Btw -- even if he refuses to see a counselor with you, there's no reason why you can't start seeing one yourself!