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NiknTrev
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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
WWYD re: "a friend" and facebook
Some of the seasoned nesties may recall me asking opinions about this probably close to 4 years ago...here's is the back story. A "friend" came to my wedding (Aug 2008) and her gift (a check) bounced. She called me when the check was returned to her and apologiized profusely and said she'd send a new one with the bank fees. When I called her a month later to ask if she sent it (for no other reson other than if she did send it, it did not get to me) she said it came back to her bc she had the worng zip code. Another month passes and still nothing. I ask again. Same story. I NEVER mentioned it again bc honestly I figured she clearly needed the $50 more than I did. I didn't want to lose her as a friend. Over the course of the nest 6 months, I texted/called/emailed and got no response. I chalked it up to her being embarrassed. Finally I gave up bc she obviously didn't care about our friendship. Fast forward to now...she friend requested me on facebook. No message just a request. While I would like nothing more than to catch up and consider her a friend again (not fb friend but a friend friend lol) I feel like she owes me an apology. A huge part of me reallyyyyy wants to just give her a piece of my mind. This teensy tiny part of me wants to accept the friend request and see if she attempts to redeem herself. WWYD? PS sorry for the huge paragraph. Stupid phone. 
Re: WWYD re: "a friend" and facebook
putting the check thing aside.... I say do not accept friendship. Your number has not changed in the last few years... she could have called/texted ya to catch up. What does your gut say?
I had a real life friend that became a fb friend. We had a big fall out a few years ago. Fast forward to earlier this year, she texted me, I called her. We met up and aired out the fall out. While we are both going through a lot of things, we have not gotten to the level we were nor do I think we ever will. And that is ok. Knowing that while not in each others life but still in each others hearts is enough.
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