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Help for friend ? screaming baby in car

Normal 0 false false false EN-US X-NONE X-NONE MicrosoftInternetExplorer4 My friend has a 4 month old and he flips out in the car. I know that this is common and it is something he?ll grow out of (Todd did eventually), but she?s willing to try more things to try to fix this sooner. She wants to drive up to Pittsburgh to see family (4+ hr drive), but she can?t take the crying and screaming for that long.

Sometimes music works, but not always. She was hoping to have to cousin ride up with them and sit in the back, but their schedules aren?t meshing. Her son won?t keep the pacifier in and she doesn?t want to give him a bunch of toys for safety reasons.

We talked about the possibility of switching him to the convertible seat RFing. I know that some of you moved your kids to the convertible seat a lot younger than we did. Did it help with unhappy baby issues? She?s concerned that it won?t help since he?s happy to be in the bucket when it?s in the stroller, but she?s willing to try it if others have had success.

Any advice is appreciated ? she might not come visit for months if she can?t get him to calm down in the car.  :-(  I remember a number of really unpleasant car trips with Todd screaming in the back seat...so I don't blame her, but I want to help if I can.

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Re: Help for friend ? screaming baby in car

  • By 5 months, both my kids had hit the limits on their convertible seat, and in general they were much more comfortable in the convertible seat. I bought my mom a convertible to use when she was watching Jackson 3 days a week, and she drove him in that from 3 months on and he seemed to really like riding in the "big" seat. J usually liked the car, but Michael wasn't a big fan. Putting on my Sesame Street CD was his favorite thing and usually calmed him down. We ended up stopping every two hours for a rest, food and diaper changes when we drove 6 hours to NYC with our kids when they were little (both were 6-8 weeks our first long trip) and that also helped a lot, since they weren't constrained for too long.
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  • Wes was 5mo when we took him to the beach. He wasn't a crazy car crier, but he wasn't content by any stretch. We just made stops every 2 hrs, gave him some safe toys to entertain himself and let him watch some Elmo DVDs when the going got tough. Toys can be a double edged swoard without a sibling to help out in the back though, since dropping one can make matters even worse.

    What about Benedryl? I've never done it, but I've seen it suggested for flying.

  • Is it possible he is getting car sick?  Maybe a screen on the window so he can't see everything going by backwards?

    Will he sleep in the car?  Maybe a trip at night.  Since it is only 4 hrs even if she left at 7:30, she'd be here in Pgh by midnight...which is late, but still gives a full night's sleep (potentially!  ha!)

    Good luck to your friend.  Screaming baby in the back seat is no fun for anyone.

  • I was going to suggest traveling at night so he'd sleep. We frequently travel to OH (about 4-5 hours depending on traffic) and we'd always leave close to Claire's bed time so she'd drift off and sleep most of the trip (we still do that even now for a peaceful trip!).
  • I think a night ride could be successful, perhaps if she got the baby to sleep before she left it would be more of a guarantee?
  • I'm glad someone else suggested driving at night.  That's what I was going to suggest.  Also, I think that switching him to a convertible seat might make things better.  My kids both got really antsy and fussy when they were outgrowing their infant seats, and when we made the switch, it did make it better.
  • Gavin was like this - until I moved his seat to the inside (middle) of the backseat bench (versus being right on top of the window). I think he may have been getting carsick.

    Night driving is a great idea - I never thought of that!

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    My three sons!

  • The night driving plan didn't work for us. We tried it once with Lanna and she slept for about 1.5 hrs and then woke up P*SSED for the rest of the ride. Both of my kids have a limit to how long they'll snooze in the car.

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