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A new low...

H talked to MIL and we agreed to pay half her ticket to get here (she needs round ticket)and H found a ticket for $400. She said she will look into it further and call us yesterday to confirm everything and get things rolling and see what she can afford. 

After talking a bit H and I decided we will pay for her ticket in full so she doesn't have to worry about anything but she never call us last night like she was supposed to. H decided to call her even though he felt he shouldn't but he did anyway. Well she answered the phone and then when she realized it was him she HUNG UP ON HIM! He tried to call her 2 more times after that and she ignored his call. He left a message and still no call back.

Needless to say, we are no longer paying for anything.  


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BFP 01/25/2013 - MC 02/09/2013
BFP 12/2/2012 - MC 12/19/2012 
BFP 03/01/2011 - DD  Annabelle 10/28/2011

Re: A new low...

  • Wow. I don't even know how to respond to that...
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  • I thought someone was going down to visit her, though?  So that's not happening anymore?
  • I think you guys are at a point where you need to come to a decision about whether you want to expect anything from her at all anymore.  It seems like if you guys just had no expectations of her you would be presently surprised when she did come through but wouldn't have the stress of this kind of thing.
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  • Wowza! I agree with B$ here.
  • imageamccul20:
    Wowza! I agree with B$ here.

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  • imagebeebe918:
    I think you guys are at a point where you need to come to a decision about whether you want to expect anything from her at all anymore.  It seems like if you guys just had no expectations of her you would be presently surprised when she did come through but wouldn't have the stress of this kind of thing.

    Totally agree with you but its a lot easier for me to do than H. He is really hurt by her behavior even though he knows she has always been a flake. I think he wants her to care so much that it really hurts him whenever she pulls things like this. Even though she is a flake he hopes she changes but unfortunately it has never happened. I feel bad for him :-(  


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    BFP 09/09/2013 - DUE 05/17/2014
    BFP 01/25/2013 - MC 02/09/2013
    BFP 12/2/2012 - MC 12/19/2012 
    BFP 03/01/2011 - DD  Annabelle 10/28/2011
  • That's awful :( I'm so sorry that you both have to deal with her bs. 
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