H talked to MIL and we agreed to pay half her ticket to get here (she needs round ticket)and H found a ticket for $400. She said she will look into it further and call us yesterday to confirm everything and get things rolling and see what she can afford.
After talking a bit H and I decided we will pay for her ticket in full so she doesn't have to worry about anything but she never call us last night like she was supposed to. H decided to call her even though he felt he shouldn't but he did anyway. Well she answered the phone and then when she realized it was him she HUNG UP ON HIM! He tried to call her 2 more times after that and she ignored his call. He left a message and still no call back.
Needless to say, we are no longer paying for anything.

Re: A new low...
The Rowdy Roberts
Totally agree with you but its a lot easier for me to do than H. He is really hurt by her behavior even though he knows she has always been a flake. I think he wants her to care so much that it really hurts him whenever she pulls things like this. Even though she is a flake he hopes she changes but unfortunately it has never happened. I feel bad for him :-(