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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
OMG
So my boyfriend has been letting a "friend" that is a 28 year old female stay at his place and sleep in his bed!!! Here is the kicker he see"s nothing wrong with this! I have ended things. He says that he cannot say no to a friend in need. I know through mutual friends that there is nothing going on with them. I feel that it is disrespectful towards me to sleep in your bed with another female. I would appreciate any feed back as I do not feel that I am being unreasonable as there is no way that he would allow me to act as such! He lied to me about this initially and know of course there are trust issues.
Re: OMG
1 - the fact that he initially lied to you about this proves that he knows perfectly well that this is not an ok thing to do.
2 - how do your mutual friends really KNOW that nothing is going on? Be realistic about this - when it really comes down to it, they don't actually know for a fact.
But good for you for ending things. At a minimum, he's an idiot. At the maximum, he's a cheater. Neither are good.
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
Nestie Bestie with the lovely RockABye
You did the right thing. I was that girl once in my younger, stupider days. All of his friends swore there was nothing going on with us, we were just sharing a bed. Yes, we were. A naked bed.
Sorry your boyfriend is such a jerk.
TTC since September 2012