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1st Holiday Season

Have you decided how you're doing holidays? DH and I haven't decided on how to split time between our two families!
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Re: 1st Holiday Season

  • We haven't really talked about it either. I know one of my families does Christmas really early since my grandparents head south for winter so that one will be fine. But other than that I guess we are hoping they don't overlap too much otherwise we just might have to skip one this year. :/
  • we don't really have this issue on the day of, because our family's live 2,000 miles apart. We live close to my family so we spend the holidays with them. We have been swithcing years ofr christmas. And this year is "technically" my inlaws year. But since we just got married and saw everyone, we will do xmas at their house next year. We are planning to go to visit them in January when flights are less expensive (in 2010 it cost us over $2300 in airline tickets!) and get together with family then.

     

  • We do the same thing every year- fly to my parents before Christmas, stay through the 25th, then fly to DH's parents really early in the morning on the 26th, which, coincidentally, is DH's birthday! Christmas is a really big deal in my family and not his, but he loves being 'home' for his birthday. I don't foresee this changing until we have a more stable place of our own (we move a lot now) and both sets of parents will come to us.

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    We do the same thing every year- fly to my parents before Christmas, stay through the 25th, then fly to DH's parents really early in the morning on the 26th, which, coincidentally, is DH's birthday! Christmas is a really big deal in my family and not his, but he loves being 'home' for his birthday. I don't foresee this changing until we have a more stable place of our own (we move a lot now) and both sets of parents will come to us.
  • imageBeeLu:
    We do the same thing every year- fly to my parents before Christmas, stay through the 25th, then fly to DH's parents really early in the morning on the 26th, which, coincidentally, is DH's birthday! Christmas is a really big deal in my family and not his, but he loves being 'home' for his birthday. I don't foresee this changing until we have a more stable place of our own (we move a lot now) and both sets of parents will come to us.

    i can't wait until we have a place of our own either-- so that we can start hosting holidays. I really want to host thanksgiving and hopefually my husbands family will come out. They don't make a really big deal about Christmas either and my family does... so its hard to spend that holiday with them.

  • Currently we're set to do Thanksgiving with my family (last two years were with his, although last year my family did Thanksgiving on Saturday instead.) It's hosted by my sister in VA so the travel pretty much cuts off any splitting of the day (our families live less than ten miles apart.) Last year we did New Year's and Xmas morning with my family and Xmas dinner with his so we will probably repeat that this year. We also made a trip out to MA with NY family to spend time with my brother and his wife and my niece and nephew. It's kind of nice to have a precedent for splitting the holidays so that even though we're married now we still have a blueprint, you know?
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  • This will be our 9th Christmas together, so we have it down to a science.

    Christmas Eve: My parents house for dinner, gifts, and church, then his dads house for gifts.

    Christmas Day: His grandparents house for breakfast and gifts, my grandparents' house for lunch, and his mom's for dinner.

    We have my other grandparents side in there somewhere, but they're usually a weekend before or after Christmas. So that makes it a lot easier. Most of our Christmas' are 45 minutes to an hour and a half away from each other. So we feel like we're constantly driving and running everywhere, but we love seeing all of our family, so we make it work.

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  • Our holiday season will be different because this marks the first Christmas that I will be spending separate from my family.  My parents and oldest brother are flying to my sister's place in VA.  DH and I can't afford to go, nor can my older (but not oldest) brother lol.

    Thanksgiving will likely be spent with my family due to Xmas traveling (this was supposed to be the year with DH's family).

    Christmas (if I have it off, fingers crossed) will be kind of like brij's.  We will spend Christmas Eve with DH's Dad, Christmas morning with DH's grandpa & step grandma, Christmas afternoon/evening with DH's Mom.  Usually DH's grandma & great grandma have their gathering a different day, but sometimes is Christmas evening and we work DH's Mom in around that.  

    We usually spend most of the days driving and hardly spend any time with people lol, but we love seeing all our families as Christmas is important to all of us.

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  • Hubby and I have also been together awhile so have it all down.

    We do Thanksgiving with his family and occasionally my mom, little brother and sister will join us there.

    Christmas eve we do at my moms with my older brother and SI.

    Christmas morning we stay home and do breakfast and gifts with our kids and then head to MIL for the remainder of the day. Really wish we could just stay home though since the kids always hate having to leave all their new gifts.

  • Hubby decided to take me to Miami for this christmas. My mom won't be in town and his family is a bit split right now. It's one of those situations where we don't want to be in the middle.
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  • Since our families live 6+ hours apart we will be with his family for Thanksgiving and my family for Christmas. I hope next year that my parents will just come to our house!
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