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Sigh. this morning was rough.

I had my pregnancy test and then biopsy this morning.  I am not pregnant.  I guess I?m not disappointed, I didn?t feel different or pregnant.

 

But then I had the biopsy of my cervix. That was painful. I cried, and I?m not a crier. 

 

I?m drained girls. Feeling pretty numb emotionally.  Ben?s supportive, but we?re just both so confused. I told him I?m thankful at least we?ve started with the RE now and that?s going to get us closer to having a baby.

 

Oh and I just stuffed my face with a large McDonalds fry because I?m an emotional eater.

Re: Sigh. this morning was rough.

  • I'm so sorry you're going through this.

    It's good that you've started the process and can figure out what it's 'not' so you'll be closer to what it is. Also, if you didn't have a supportive husband I'm sure it would be even worse.

    Just remember, when you do have a baby, it will have been worth EVERY numb moment, needle prick, and drs appointment. When you have your baby you will realize that the baby you are given is the one that was to be yours all along.

    T&P for you.

  • BIG HUG!!!!  I'm so sorry.  I'm so glad Ben is supportive and I ditto Steph, you're getting closer and it'll all be worth it.

    I've had a biopsy of cervix twice when I had abnormal paps.  It does hurt! 

    Eliza Mae - September 16th, 2014

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  • I've been thinking about you since yesterday.  {{{hugs}}}  I'm sending nestie vibes that you get answers.
  • I'm so sorry Andrea, you deserve this more than anyone I know and it will happen. I'm so glad you are with an RE now and you will be getting closer to having a baby. As draining as it is it will so be worth it in the end. I'm here for you if you need anything or just need to vent. If you are ever feeling down please dont hesitate to vent here. 

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  • Big hugs!!!

    I'm so so sorry. Steph is right. All of this will be worth it when you get to hold your little baby. I don't even know what to say. I'm sure you're really emotionally drained - it's a hard process to go through! You're a very strong person and you'll be a great mom. 

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  • I'm sorry.  This is all very confusing, emotionally draining and time consuming.  But I promise its all worth it in the end and you will  forget about all the tests, needles, etc.

     

  • I'm so sorry you are going through this.  I've also had a cervical biopsy so I feel your pain there.  Just remember why you're doing all of this and in the end it will be worth it.  And its good that your husband is supportive and you're coping with it together...sending you happy and positive vibes :)
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