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Wedding Question
So I remember the invites for my wedding by memory and how I addressed everything. I also sent out rehearsal dinner invites that included the information for the rehearsal on it. So I need advice from you ladies on this.
H is in his cousin's wedding which is NYE. Yesterday we got in the invite for the rehearsal dinner. It was addressed to Mr and Mrs so I assume that I am invited to come since nothing has been said to me otherwise. Also the invite (which was hand covered in glitter) said the dinner would be immediately following a 4:00 rehearsal but never said where the rehearsal was I assume the church they are getting married in BUT the rehearsal being a Sunday night causes a concern. Most churches have service and since this is one of the largest churches in our town I would think they would have service.
But my question is what kind of wording did you put on your invites and how did you address them or let people know their spouse was invited? And did you put where your rehearsal was going to be or did you just leave it as understood? It just seems slightly weird compared to mine.
Re: Wedding Question
I;d assume that the rehearsal was at the church. Later mass times on Sundays are usually 6pm (4pm on Saturdays) so they might be trying to do it before the 6pm mass.
We did list the church as the location for people who were invited to the rehearsal. We sent the invited to Mr and Mrs so and so (or Mr. whoever and Ms. whoever if they weren't married)
I'd call if you're unsure of where the rehearsal is but I'm going to guess it's at the church if they didn't include another location/address.
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I'd agree that i'd assume rehersal is at the ceremony location, and with a 4:00pm rehersal, they'd be trying to get it in before Mass at 6:00.
Also, with the envelope addressed to Mr. and Mrs. i'd say you're invited. If it was only Mr. i'd assume just hubby.
I definitely think you're invited since it says Mr. and Mrs.
I would also assume that the rehearsal is at the Church if they didn't specify.
I agree w/ PPs.
Rehearsal is probably at the Church, but I'd call to confirm. And based on the way it's addressed you're invited.
This. I might double check with them to be safe, or they might be the kind of people who don't think a rehersal is actually necissary...like my bestman and his wife...had a dinner where the order of service was given out and that was what they called the rehersal. (which by the way did NOT go smoothly on the day of...so I do hope they are having a rehersal at the wedding location!)
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