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We cheated!!!
I cheated on my girlfriend once. But the other times I just kiss a girl and the other time, she seen blocked numbers on my sprint account. I want to move forward with her but she demanding to look at my sprint account to make sure I not talking to anyone. Which I'm not, I just want het to trust me for my word but she says she will never trust me ior believe a word I say. We been together 6 years. She cheated in me once. She told me when found out that o cheated On. So that me she would have took what she did to the grave if she never would have found what I did. But I really love her and want us to work.
Any Advice would be great
Re: We cheated!!!
You expect her to just believe you when you've already broken her trust? And you want to stay with her when she successfully fooled you? How old are the two of you, out of curiosity? Because this sounds like such a wonderful mature adult relationship. /sarcasm
A cheater who genuinely wants to change must adopt complete transparency to prove their new trustworthiness. This does involve open access to all messages and accounts. If you refuse that, you shouldn't be surprised when she leaves you.
Of course she doesn't want to just take your word for it. She just found out you cheated, so why should she believe that you're going to tell her the truth? The only way you can prove yourself trustworthy is to be completely transparent with everything in your life. If you are that sincere about making things work, then you need to put in a lot of hard work. And even though you "just kissed" another girl (seriously?!), it's still a big deal. If you don't like the fact that she wants complete transparency and access, then you need to break things off.
I am also wondering why either of you want to be with a cheater seeing as she also cheated on you.
If you two are going to stick this relationship out, you need to be prepared for the fact that she (and maybe even you) will probably have trust issues come up throughout your entire relationship. People don't just get over the fact that their significant other cheated on them. From the sound of it, she will carry this scar with her for the rest of her life (as most people probably do) and will hang this over your head for a long time.
Really? I think this relationship is over.
If you want to continue you will need to answer her demands. Also, you two need counseling.
If I was her I'd run fast away from you and this mess, you may want to do the same. It seems you both thrive on cheating and all the drama that comes with it.