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Who makes out b4 makinq love??
Ok so i was wondering who kisses and/or makes out b4 having sex? I want to show my bf that im not the only girl in the world that would love kissing b4 having sex, we dont kiss and im trying to find a way to convience him to kiss me A LOT like he once did. So help me out and explain to him or me if u kiss and/or make out with ur spouse and how often? Before making love? And why kiss one another?
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Re: Who makes out b4 makinq love??
well, it shouldn't really matter if internet strangers like making out before sex. It should matter that *you* want to and enjoy it. I don't really know that I would really want to have a bf that didn't care what I wanted sexually and was willing to compromise/participate in that.
Also, it helps prepare the way/get you warmed up for doing the deed, so there's that.
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right!!
totally agree
I remember you: he's the jerk who won't go down on you.
And you're the idiot who has put up with it:
My bf doesnt want to go down on me, and i wish he would since i never knew how that felt, he barely kisses me
For love of mike get RID of this guy --- We told you the same when you complained about him on the S&R board.
You are begging us to give you some kind of magic solution to get him to make out with you. You're begging us for a way to change him so that he makes out with you. Look: he is what he is annd that's that.
You either live with it or you get out there and find another guy who likes to do both. The choice is yours.
(and sex with a 19 year old boy is never "amazing." They are inexperienced and know nothing about control or technique)
You mean he won't kiss you on the lips...or kiss you anywhere? Seriously the whole point of foreplay is to wind a girl up so she gets more turned on. Why won't he kiss you? Is there an issue about bad breath? You have GOT to talk to this man about this stuff.
He needs to either communicate or meet your needs....if not, then dump him.
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He sounds like a very selfish lover. I don't think it will get better. People can learn skills to improve how they are as a lover but they need to care about doing so. I don't think he cares.
Any smart man knows that the more effort he can put into getting his female partner more turned on, the hotter the sex will be for him as well!