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My heart is broken...sad post

Just got myself together after the disasterous and heartbreaking appointment today. 

We found out that the baby stopped growing at 9 weeks ( I should have been 13 weeks) I knew as soon as I saw the baby on the screen. 

Thankfully H was there with me so I had a shoulder to cry on. My parents and MIL came to check on us tonight. Now I am sitting here and wondering what went wrong..and all I can do is cry :/ 



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Missing Our July Sparkler
BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron <3

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  • Thoughts and prayers to you. My heart is broken for you.
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  • praying for you as you deal with this.
  • I am so incredibly sorry. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. Please know that your May 2012 girls are here for you if you just need to talk or get things off your mind in any moments of sadness, anger, or confusion.  You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.  ::so many hugs::

     

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and just know we are all here for you. *HUGS*
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  • My heart is breaking into pieces for you. I have no words for you or none that seem to make a difference in my head. Praying and thinking about you. We are here if you need anything! Just know that while timing wasn't right this time doesn't mean it was anything you did wrong and I hope you don't blame yourself. We all love you here and are here if you need ANYTHING!!!!
  • I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.  As the other ladies have said, know you have a support group here if you need to talk or just need a sympathetic "shoulder" to cry on.  Sending lots of thoughts, prayers and hugs to you and your family!
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  • Oh no! I am so sorry. Sending you lots of hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this. There are no words to lessen the hurt, but know that we are here for you if you need.
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  • Im so sorry. I cant imagine how much your heart is hurting right now. may you find some peace in all the love and prayer you have coming your way. my thoughts and prayers are certainly with you
  • I am so sorry to hear that. Thoughts and prayers for you and your H.
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  • I'm so sorry! :( (you'll probably get sick of hearing that...) As the other girls have said... you KNOW we're all here for you! I can't imagine the heartbreak... Sending Nestie vibes for you and your husband.. you'll be in my thoughts.
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  • Thank you all for your kind words and hugs...I need them more than anything right now.

    I barely slept at all last night...basically cried myself to sleep everytime I woke up in the middle of the night. I'm back and work today (ugh) and told my boss' wife about what happened...so she could warn him that I could cry at the drop of a hat today.

    We'll get through this and someday we'll have a healthy and happy baby.

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    BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
    BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron <3

  • I'm so sorry! My thoughts are with you and your H. Like some of the other girls said, we're here if you need anything at all!

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  • cpm, I'm so so sorry.  Please know that we're all here for you, and thinking of you and sending you hugs.  That doesn't seem like nearly enough, but know that we mean it. 

    Please let us know if there's anything at all we can do for you.. 

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  • I am so sorry for your loss and I can't imagine what you are going through. My heart is breaking for you. Please know that this is not your fault. We are all here if you need a shoulder. ***HUGS***
  • I'm so sorry for your loss!  You and your DH will be in my prayers!  I just went through the same thing at 7.5 weeks.  It gets better.  If you have any questions let me know.  DH and I just keep telling each other at least we can get pregnant.  Also there is nothing you did wrong or could have done, the doc told me it wouldn't have been a healthy baby and that it is natures way.
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  • I am so sorry :( You, your H and your families are in my thoughts.
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  • So sorry to hear =[
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  • Aw- I'm so, so sorry for your loss :/
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  • I am SO sorry!!  I can't imagine what you and your husband are going through.  :(
  • CPM, I am so sorry.  Sending you nestie vibes. 

  • Christine, please know that you did nothing wrong whatsoever.  I know these are broken words right now, but there is a bigger plan for you that you just don't know about right now.  My mom had a miscarriage in between my sister and I and I always ask her how she dealt with it.  She tells me that it is the most intense pain that a woman can feel, but know that you and your husband will get through it with the strength of your love and marriage.  Make sure you allow yourself the time to grieve and to heal.  You both will need that.

     I can only offer you my love and prayers and knowledge that your May girls have your back and will be here with you through it all.  My arms are stretched out to you in MA.  Know that you have love coming to you in all forms right now.

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    Christine, please know that you did nothing wrong whatsoever.  I know these are broken words right now, but there is a bigger plan for you that you just don't know about right now.  My mom had a miscarriage in between my sister and I and I always ask her how she dealt with it.  She tells me that it is the most intense pain that a woman can feel, but know that you and your husband will get through it with the strength of your love and marriage.  Make sure you allow yourself the time to grieve and to heal.  You both will need that.

     I can only offer you my love and prayers and knowledge that your May girls have your back and will be here with you through it all.  My arms are stretched out to you in MA.  Know that you have love coming to you in all forms right now.

    Thank you so much for your kind words, they mean a lot to me. I honestly think this will make us a stronger couple because we're going to need to work through this pain together. So far H has been my rock, he's trying to cheer me up but also letting me cry to him when I need to.

    Thank you all for the love, prayers and hugs. I feel so blessed to have you all here for me.

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    BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
    BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron <3

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    Christine, please know that you did nothing wrong whatsoever.  I know these are broken words right now, but there is a bigger plan for you that you just don't know about right now.  My mom had a miscarriage in between my sister and I and I always ask her how she dealt with it.  She tells me that it is the most intense pain that a woman can feel, but know that you and your husband will get through it with the strength of your love and marriage.  Make sure you allow yourself the time to grieve and to heal.  You both will need that.

     I can only offer you my love and prayers and knowledge that your May girls have your back and will be here with you through it all.  My arms are stretched out to you in MA.  Know that you have love coming to you in all forms right now.

    Thank you so much for your kind words, they mean a lot to me. I honestly think this will make us a stronger couple because we're going to need to work through this pain together. So far H has been my rock, he's trying to cheer me up but also letting me cry to him when I need to.

    Thank you all for the love, prayers and hugs. I feel so blessed to have you all here for me.

    I think it is so important to trust and have faith that this will pass and you will be stronger as a couple through this. Rely on your dear family and friends. They will also help you through this process. That's why God gives us these wonderful people in our lives. They will be strong when you need to be weak. For now just grieve for your loss.
  • SO sorry to hear this :( My heart breaks for you.

    This too shall pass.

     

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  • I am so completely sorry. Just know that in time, you will start feeling better little by little. I'll be praying for you!
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  • Oh I am so so sorry to read this. I am sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself during this difficult time. 
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