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HELP- caught husband red handed!!!
He said he was supposed to be meeting someone from work but then it was getting so late and he was not answering so the phone, so i looked at his email and found photos of a naked girl and an email dated today saying they were going to meet up at 6. I dont know what happened, but its obvious he is not being faithful. We have a 4 year old and a 2 year old. What do i do?!?!?!? I thought our marriage was fine! We just had sex yesterday and he ALWAYS says he loves me and would never ever cheat on me!!!
Re: HELP- caught husband red handed!!!
Keep your calm and give home one chance to come clean. Ask him where have you been and tell me the truth you have one chance.
If he doesn't come clean demand a divorce. Not that he's a piece of *** already but lying to your face he should know he's been caught. If he admits demand counseling.
I'll give it to you straight: you'll have to show him the door.Here is why:
Once a cheater always a cheater and any trust for him that you had is now gone.
It will be difficult for him to get that trust factor back; you may never be able to trust him again, no matter how much therapy and counseling you and he get.
And even if you stay with him, you'll have a Sword of Damocles hanging over your head; you'll always wonder if he's cheating again.
You also have no assurance that this is the first and only extramarital affair he has been having. I don't want to be an alarmist but this may have been going on for quite some time...and he only now just happened to get caught.
I would keep that photo and the rest of it as evidence and see an attorney asap.
File for divorce and don't look back.
Wishing you luck. This has to be horrible for you and the kids..
This is a good idea and a very good place to start.
Why I said keep the evidence; she will need it when she files for divorce.
He probably has a green card so there's not much chance he'd be deported. Too bad.
You need to get off the computer and stand up for your marriage. Don't wait, call like crazy, track him down. He needs to explain himself, and make him feel as awful as you do. Sorry but cheating is not an option to me, no forgiveness. I'd go down ripping his hair out before I'd knowingly let him be with someone else.
Best of luck.
Cheating isn't an option but she needs to stand up for her marriage?
This does not compute.
"cheating is not an option to me"- Me explaining why I was so Brass about her figuring out whats going on.
"Stand up for your marriage" Don't let him make the choice for you, if you caught him-don't sit at home and wait.
I guess thats what I meant.
Ahhh, I am so sorry sweetie! It is heartbreaking and it sucks!
Hopefully you printed and/or forwarded the emails and photos to yourself.
Be tough with the confrontation....and hang in there!
You are in my thoughts and prayers!
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