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F/U Chores
I never got to talk to H about the chore list. But he did tell me Friday night, not to do anything Saturday while he worked and we will do it all together Sunday. Which is something I suggested before. I did go grocery shopping since we are 40mins outside Baltimore and it has been crazy all week with super bowl!
11 pm Saturday night, H decided to go help his old towing company since it was snowing. I got pissed because I knew this would mean H would sleep all day Sunday. I told him before he left that I knew this would mean I'm stuck doing everything, again. He got upset and left. At this point, I'm like whatever. He texts me and asks if I feel like I do everything. And I said yes, giving the example from earlier that night where I'm cooking and he's laying on the couch... I ask if he could take the trash out (supper was almost done so he had to get up anyway) and he snapped at me. He apoligized, and I kind of felt he was finally understanding my point.
Sunday, H got up relatively early and helped me clean! Even helped me with our bathroom right before the super bowl... and we made a list together for little things he can do Wednesday on our day off.
Crossing fingers this lasts and I don't have to resort to a strike.
Re: F/U Chores
I'm not getting my hopes up, but it was a nice change...we will see if he does anything tomorrow on his day off.