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in relationship but havent done anything.

Hello everyone-

Question or your advice..

I've been dating this guy for nearly 8 months..He and I are hanging out at the bar, at the park and sometimes at friends' house. We always making out and saying that he loves me but we haven't done intercourse yet. He seems like he wants to have sex with me but hasn't say anything. I am ready for it. Should I say anything to him? If you leave me some comments, I would be appreciated :-)

Re: in relationship but havent done anything.

  • Nope. Just be patient with the guy. People deserve respect and patience when it comes down waiting for sex. It does not matter how ready you are if he isn't. 8 months is hardly a long time to start worrying about it anyways. 
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  • This is 2013.:)

    You can make the first move on this one, if you like.:)

    Just do it.:)

  • In my universe 8 months is a REALLY long time to be making out and not sleeping together, if you're over the age of 16.
  • Maybe he hasn't slept with you yet because he does love you. He wants to take it a bit slower. Just a thought. Make the first move if you want. I did with my H. You could always ask why he hasn't made a move yet and let him know you're ready when he is. Maybe he's nervous and doesn't want to ruin what you have. Won't know until you try something.
  • I think 8 months is a really long time to wait, especially if you have not talked about it.

    I think you should go ahead and ask him about it. Maybe he wants to but is hesitant to make the first move that way because he is worried you aren't ready? Good sex usually requires some communication so this is the first step--ask him if he is ready, wants to wait, where is he at with it? Good luck! 

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  • I think I should talk to him and see if he's ready or not. It's funny because he has been touching all over my body like breasts, butt, kisses on my neck, etc. I was thinking that he is ready so I just let him touch me the way he wants but I haven't touch him as it was suppose to be. I don't know why. I'll talk to him when I see him. Thank you for help :)
  • I think 8 months is a really long time to wait, especially if you have not talked about it.

    I think you should go ahead and ask him about it. Maybe he wants to but is hesitant to make the first move that way because he is worried you aren't ready? Good sex usually requires some communication so this is the first step--ask him if he is ready, wants to wait, where is he at with it? Good luck! 

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  • wait.

    for marriage 

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  • You sound incredibly young - it sounds like it's maybe either his first time or your first time. Let things go at their own pace, don't be afraid to make the first move if it is really what you want though.
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