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Since I told you guys....
Since I told you guys I was pregnant again I guess I should update that I lost the second pregnancy as well. I havent really been around since I have been pretty swamped with Annabelle being all over the place and just trying to keep busy.
I should have never gotten pregnant that fast again to begin with. Even though the doctor gave me the ok to ttc again he shouldnt have done that. I have changed doctors and dont really want to see him again. The new doctor explained to me how after a m/c your body pretty much strips all the lining and when you get pregnant too fast afterwards your body doesnt have enough lining to maintain a healthy pregnancy because it cant hold on to it. So thats pretty much what happened.
I'm still pretty ok about everything. I saw the sack this time but there was no fetal pole and didnt see a hb because it was too early. I was around 4-5 weeks which was around the same time as last time. Now the doctor wants me to wait 2-3 cycles before trying again.
On the upside of things we are taking this opportunity to take ea vacation. We booked a 7 day cruise to the Bahamas and we even splurged and got ourselves the penthouse suite so we have a bunch of room for Annabelle to run around. Its on the back of the boat so we have an oversized balcony with a 180 view of the ocean.
So thats what the deal with me. Hope everyone is doing well.
Re: Since I told you guys....
May 5th. Were going out of NYC so we dont have to get plane tickets and save the stress and effort of flying with a toddler. We will go to my dad's who lives 30 min from NYC the night before and he will drop us off at the port on the day. No car seat issues either.
I'm sorry for your loss. I'm glad you are with another doctor. I was surprised that you weren't told to wait a cycle or 2 before TTC.
Your cruise sounds amazing!! Alot of family took a Royal Caribbean cruise and had a great time. I so wanted to go, but we were TTC at the time they booked it and did not want to go pregnant.
I should have looked into it but I just didnt think I had to. I thought I could trust my doctor but once I did look into it, it was a little too late. I was very disappointed that that he didnt tell me the risks of getting pregnant again right away. Just because I could get pregnant doesnt mean that I should have.
We booked with Norwegian which is what we went with last time. They have nice activities for kids, even a kiddie pool and play gyms. Maybe we can have a Bahamas baby next time around.
The Rowdy Roberts
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Your vacation sounds awesome, though, and I am totally jealous!
boy (n): a noise with dirt on it
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, but glad you're dealing okay. I'm glad you have found a doctor you feel more comfortable with....that's so important!
And your trip sounds amazing!
I'm so sorry about your loss.
I agree with everyone else. Your trip sounds amazing! And it'll be so nice to get away for awhile.