I picked the kiddo up from MIL's last night and she asked me a wired question, or I think it was wired anyways.
My parents were in town in mid-February. Their last night here mil dropped off some food for them, H was there but I was still at work. So she says to me; "that night I dropped off the rice and beans for your parents, when I left I thought I saw you at the intersection at Main St, but then instead of turning to go home, you went left. I figured maybe I was wrong but then I saw you again down the block coming the other way and it was your car because the one headlight was out".
I think it plays into my already existing annoyance of her overbearing presence, but is that a weird thing to say? Like why does she need to know why I turned a different way? Maybe I had to stop somewhere who the eff cares?
(Truthfully, there was probably a song playing I wanted to hear the rest of, I usually circle the block when that happens. But it's really none of her business)
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There are 2 explanations I can think of:
1. She thought I was trying to avoid her (although I didn't know she was stopping by) and has been thinking about it ever since.
2. I told H about something that happened when I pi
So I broke down and talked to H about her last night. Ok, the tequila broke me down, whatevs. I started out by telling him about the weird question to which he agreed it was odd and out of line. I then proceeded to go on about needing boundaries since
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BFP 3/14/13!!!
U/S 4/15: Identical twins!
Lost my angel boys at 10.5 weeks
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She does ignore him. She ignores everyone. She does whatever she pleases one way or another.
Hes always good about talking to her when I bring things up, but he thinks it would be more effective if I said things to her in the moment rather
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TTC since March 2012
BFP 3/14/13!!!
U/S 4/15: Identical twins!
Lost my angel boys at 10.5 weeks
My Chart***My TTC blog
Uuugggh she stopped over unannounced yesterday and invited herself in. I had just got home from work myself and honestly, I just ignored her. H kind of did the same and didn't really engage her until she spoke to him. We just went on with our own conve