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coworker (loss related)

I work in 3 buildings. One, I'm only in on fridays. A coworker told other teachers she was pregnant early on due to bad ms. She m/c:( I purposely haven't told my coworkers I'm pregnant because I felt so bad and my heart goes out to her. It's my first year at this building,and I dont know her well enough to talk to her alone.

At lunch last week another coworker asked about my bump, so I told them I was pregnant. The one woman left the lunch room immediately.

It just sucks. I feel awful and don't know how to help. Do I say something or just let this go? Our due dates would have been 2 weeks apart. :( 

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Re: coworker (loss related)

  • Let it go.  

    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
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  • That's a crappy situation to be in.  I'm sorry - I don't really have any advice :(
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  • I agree with vino, don't say anything.

    I put off telling my coworkers as long as possible, but had to tell them about two weeks ago (at 19 weeks) because it is getting obvious.

    There is not much you can do, you can't keep it secret forever

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  • Leave her alone. 
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  • Let it go. She will talk to you again once she's ready. It's especially hard to be around someone who is due around the same time.

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    Let it go. She will talk to you again once she's ready. It's especially hard to be around someone who is due around th
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