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From fiance to boyfriend :(

Me and my fiance broke off our engagement back in October. We have had ups and downs but now his emotions are all over the place. Says he loves me and cares but avoids calls and stays with friends till 4am. I once left and he begged me back but his good behavior didnt last long. I wish us as women wouldnt have to leave in order for a man to realize what he has.I do know that he loves me but he doesnt even want to hear the baby's heartbeat. He is the type where is there is a problem or uncomfortable situation then he will avoid it thinking it will just go away. His own father told me that he is selfish and only calls when he needs anything but then yet his parents are not strict with him and wanting him to change.There reaction is he has always been like this and I dont know why he is the way he is. We currently live together and are in a relationship but a baby isnt going to change a man or a relationship. I just want that old love we once had not only for me but for our baby. I know that If i leave he will beg me back like he once did. I tried having that serious talk with him where we talk about baby and our future but his response is that Its just not the same. Which I can understand cause we have been through some things but other days he talks about buying us a house and missing me etc. Im confused. Any tips or advice would help. Ive posted this before on another board bu just saw they had a relationship one.Thanks ladies
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Re: From fiance to boyfriend :(

  • It is time to leave him and ignore all of the immature drama he is bringing into your life. If he truly wants to be with you he will make it happen. You should not be around him until he has proven that he has grown up for an extended period of time. H

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  • Actions speak louder than words.  Begging and pleading is easy. Making changes and being a responsible adult  is hard. 

    I would start paying attention to his actions because his actions are saying very loudly that he doesn't

  • You had me at the title of your post.

    Why do you still want this guy in your life, period, let alone as a boyfriend....now to read the rest of your post:

     Me and my fiance broke off our engagement back in October. We have had ups

  • Save yourself heartache and move on. Be strong.
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  • Real men don't need a woman to leave to realize what they have.  I'm sorry you're with this assshole.  He's too immature to give you what you need.  Say goodbye and concentrate on making a stable life for you and your child.
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  • imagestw_77:

    Actions speak louder than words.  Begging and pleading is easy. Making changes and being a responsible adult &nb

  • image3222w27thst:
    I wish us as women wouldnt have to leave in order for a man to realize what he has.I do know that he loves me but he
  • imagestw_77:

    Actions speak louder than words.  Begging and pleading is easy. Making changes and being a responsible adult &nb

  • I think it's time to leave, for good.  He can beg and plead all he wants.  YOU have the power to say NO. 

    In an ideal world you two would be together and raise your child together and live happily ever after.  If that is not

  • I was pregnant before. Pregnant In october and we had a miscariage. This time around we didnt know and ended up pregnant again. Thanks so much for the advice ladies I really appreciate it,

    You all are the words and advice I would give to friends

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  • You don?t have to be sad, when someone belongs to you, it will be, the most important thing it?s to be happy with yourself and then you shared that happiness with the people around you. Never let that your happiness it is in one person! Blessings.
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  • Raise your standards
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  • He may or may not change his selfish ways. In the meantime you should leave. You'll be stronger in the end.
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