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my mother in law planned a week vacation for them, us and our son and my husbands brother and sister and families. basically we'd have 13 people in one house for a week. my mom recently passed away from cancer and i realized the first day of the vacation s inbetween my parents anniversary and fathers day and i dont want to leave my dad that weekend so my husband told her we wouldnt be there until monday and her first response was "but we already had this planned" i no longer want to go on this trip bece of her lack ofconsideration but my husband would go with our 1 year old to please her. what should i do stand up to her ( theres many other things shes done) or go to try spend time with my son.
Re: mother in law
I would send H and the kid and spend some one on one time with my Dad.
Your MIL sounds like a peach.... Ugh.
I am so sorry for your loss.
TTC since September 2012
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
I have to add - this is similar to me as families who rotate holidays. One year w/ the wife's family, the next w/ DH's family, etc. But - sometimes that schedule can get thrown for a loop when there is a death in the family, or perhaps ther
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
I am' sorry to hear of your loss. Your MIL is an inconsiderate cold _itch.
I 'd like to say to her-
Oh I am sorry MIL...My mom should have planned her death for a better time to suit your needs.
GRRRR!!!
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
This in itself = MADNESS.
What I think your H and you should do:
Sit down with her and tell her that you c
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
TTC since June 2012
I think you are projecting some of your issues about your mother passing onto your mother in law. Her not strapping your child into the high chair and your child falling out sucks, yes. However, you should not be tying it to "the day you put your mothe
Chronically hilarious - you'll split your stitches!
I wrote a book! Bucket list CHECK!
http://notesfortheirtherapist.blogspot.co.uk
I'm not saying i dont appreciate her watching him, but when you entrust the care of your child on someone else you would expect them to do what you would do. and i know accidents do happen- but this was ignorance an accident would have been if the stra
Chronically hilarious - you'll split your stitches!
I wrote a book! Bucket list CHECK!
http://notesfortheirtherapist.blogspot.co.uk
OP I am so sorry for your loss. I would also be angry if someone were watching my LO and using an old car seat or didn't strap her into the high chair.
My father passed away in O