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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
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My Birthday
So my birthday is coming up, and we been pretty busy lately so I'd like to use it as an excuse to do something special or at least spend a night together. A date night like we used to have before we were married. husband hasn't mentioned the fact that my birthday is soon, except for once a couple weeks ago. The only thing is I feel guilty making a 'big deal' out of my birthday, especially since husband's birthday was during a very stressful time where we couldn't really do anything special to celebrate. (Husband is very big on celebrating on the actual date, like it isn't the same if we do it a different day). It always seems like this happens to his birthday every year--which he always remarks on when it happens again. Which makes me feel even guiltier about mine. Not sure what to do. I don't want to ignore my own birthday, but I don't really want to be the one to bring it up.
Re: My Birthday
TTC since September 2012
Baby Boy loved for 15 weeks, 5/31/11
Baby Girl loved for 16.5 weeks. 3/1/12
I agree with PPs - telling him what you want is the only way you're going to get it.
To deal with the issue of his "forgotten" birthday, when you bring up yours, I would let him know that you plan to fix things for him in the future. Can you star
"You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. SeussI agree with PPs he isn't a mind reader. Heck I even put together a wish list and update it before every gift occasion. My H loves this, he still gets to pick the gift but he can't go wrong.
As to your Hs Bday he needs to stop the idea of h
**6.30.12** I have found the one whom my soul loves.