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Trust issue

Hi i have noticed recently that my husband has started acting differently like he doesn't trust me when ever i get a text message he is always asking who it is and what that person wants and i im on the internet he is always checking up on what im looking at he searches my messages on my phone and when i get invited out to coffee with my friends he asks if he can come along and when i say no he cracks the shits big time cos he isnt invited i hardly go out with my friends anymore cos  and when i do he messages me every 5 minutes asking when i will be home and what im doing and when i dont reply he rings and asks and when i tell him im not sure when i will be home he cracks it, it is doing my head in we have been married for 4 years and been together for 8 years and it has only been the last month that he has been acting like this, please help what can i do i am at my whits end i cant stand it he is making me feel like i am on egg shells al day :-/  i love him more then anything and i would never ever cheat on him so i have no idea why he is acting like he is  

Re: Trust issue

  • Have you talked to him??? Maybe something is going on inside him that has NOTHING to do with you, but is coming out sideways. Ask him. He loves you. You love him.
  • Yeh i have and he just gets angry when i ask him and never answers my question, im so sick of it i hope it ends soo 
  • Unless you did something out of the ordinary(and you should as him about this before jumping to any conclusions), I would look at it as an issue of him having changed. Has he developed self esteem issues? Any major losses, personal or work related? Is

  • imageemmaladkin:

    Hi i have noticed recently that my husband has started acting differently like he doesn't trust me when ever i

  • Have you talked to him about what's going on? Is there a lack of communication? Why would he suddenly change his behavior and not trust you after 8 years together? 
  • It seems rather sudden that after 8 years together, he would develop these issues.  Like pp have said, it might be him that is running around on you.  I had a boyfriend once that did this exact thing; he became suspicious of what I was up to for
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  • Punctuation! Have you ever heard of using a period (.) in your sentences! Yeesh! He's probably checking your texts for grammar errors. 

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  • I dated someone who acted that way. It was because HE was doing the things he accused me of doing.

    Apparently he figured if he could do it, so could I.   The only difference was,  I WASNT !!

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    Punctuation! Have you ever heard of using a period (.) in your sentences! Yeesh! He's probably checking your texts for g

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