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Is difficult to make a choice
My husband and I have been together 11 years of dating we had many problems because he is a person who does not socialize much and I love going out. After three years I got pregnant we moved to an apartment. When I'm in the hospital giving birth the baby had complications and left him hospitalized. My husband saw him once because he was depressed. I stayed in the hospital for almost a month and I was sleeping there almost every night to breathfeed my baby. When we left the hospital I found out that my husband was addicted to cocaine. I never suspected anything, I did notice a few changes but it never crossed my mind drugs. It was a period of much suffering, I began to study the Bible and that gave me support. we spent a year and we moved and he started going out with a friend who sold drugs and got into that world, he always told me he just wanted to make money to invest and then quit. I decided to leave and go with the baby. We fix our problems he quit from everything and he was in a good job and we were fine. When they passed about two years he left his job and I also lost my job. Our relationship was stressful but still together with all the ups and downs, I was always alone with my baby because he doesn't like to go out. The last thing he did and that hurt me so much was for the month of July 2012, he was studying at the college and he was going out with some friends from college who used drugs and he returned to using cocaine and one night I went to see the text messages and I realized that he was writing to another woman. It hurt a lot but he denied that he was serious and they were just text, I no longer trusted him. In January 2013 I received a Facebook message from a friend telling me that he had spent many days dreaming about me and that made me feel good and I called him. We been calling each other for three month. I love talking to him but my husband has changed a lot now he is seeking from God and has changed for the better. I do not know what to do because if I really love my husband I would not be talking to another man, I don't know if I still upset for all the things he did to me. I like to know different opinions I feel loss 
Re: Is difficult to make a choice
The only thing in creation that you are concerned about is whether to choose your H or your boyfriend.....
Lady: are you effen kidding me????
I would like to recommend individual counseling for you so that you can figure out what you wish to do...
"If you insist on looking back into the past, then be sure you look with eyes of compassion and foregiveness -- of yourself and others" - unknown
Moving on to someone else may feel good initially - but the dust will eventually clear and you will