Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Just a bit of wedding etiquette...
I thought I would poll to check on a quick wedding etiquette question that I was wondering about.
I have a friend who is getting married in three weeks. In college (recently) we were very good friends and hall mates. She now lives locally, but I don't get to see her as often as would be nice due to busy schedules and life's movements. That being said, I thought it would be nice to receive a wedding invite (I also know the groom slightly, and the groom's family well), but I didn't expect one.
Then I got the invite to her bridal shower several weeks ago and it was a pleasant half-surprise. I got her a nice gift, and had a great time catching up with her. Since then, I kind of expected a wedding invite....I know where she is having the wedding and also know that she is not space or guest restricted.
Long story short, wedding is in three weeks, and no invite. I realize there is still possibly a little time, but I was a little disappointed. If you are invited to a bridal shower locally, is it etiquette to also send the local wedding invite? It occurred to me that my etiquette expectations may be wrong on this.
Re: Just a bit of wedding etiquette...
Baby Boy loved for 15 weeks, 5/31/11
Baby Girl loved for 16.5 weeks. 3/1/12
Yikes.
I wonder if the invite got lost in the mail, do they have a wedding website? If so you may find your name in the guest list and can also RSVP on that. I'm pretty sure you are invited to the wedding, something just went wrong.
Thanks so much for the replies, ladies! The bride-to-be is a really sweet girl....I wasn't angry, just a little disappointed. And hey....the invite might come really late still.
The suggestion about the wedding website is good. I'll have to