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Issues transitioning..

My husband was active duty USMC and got out about 8 months ago. It was a sudden decision, that we were not prepared for. Financially or mentally. Since then he has been at a job (that we just found out is a dead end) and has been looking for other jobs weekly. We've had to rent out our house and move in with my parents due to financial issues. We also live about 30min from our duty station, which I think makes it extremely hard on the both of us. Since we're constantly in that town, around active duty marines and wishing we were still military.

I know reminiscing and constantly wanting our old life back is doing us no good. Anyone have any similar issues/suggestions on how to forget how good we had it? haha 

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Re: Issues transitioning..

  • It's not exactly the same obviously, but my whole life, I wanted to be a Marine officer. I met my husband who's enlisted a year before I graduated from college. I was working with the OSO near school, and my chances of getting in we're great. My OSA ha

    I've seen a lot of military surprise homecomings. It wouldn't work on me. I always have my back to the corner and my face to the door. Looking for terrorists, criminals, various other threats, and husbands.
  • I would also suggest he look into the Reserves or National Guard.  It will give him a chance to serve and put the uniform back on.  I'd also encourage him to use his GI Bill to go to school.  

    What is he interested in?  Are th

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  • Thanks for your replies! We've looked into other branches and due to cutbacks, active duty in any branch for prior service is basically a no. I think he's coming around to the idea of reservist. At first it was a blunt no, I think because he was hurt t

    Trying to Conceive Ticker
  • I would encourage him to start school.  He can get core classes out of the way before he has to declare a major.  
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  • FWIW, 2/6 recruiters at my Army recruiter were Marines that went Army. They said they prefer it. I question that, but that's what they say. I was a diehard motard wannabe Marine, but I've really come to be excited about the possibility of the Army, so hop
    I've seen a lot of military surprise homecomings. It wouldn't work on me. I always have my back to the corner and my face to the door. Looking for terrorists, criminals, various other threats, and husbands.
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