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Not expecting the unexpected

Hi ladies!

I hope you are all doing well!  It is hard to believe that we're all (or nearly) 6 months married.

 I'm having a bit of an overwhelming day!  I found out last week that DH will be out of work for 2 months this summer while his job transitions from one part of our state to another. It isn't a huge deal because we have time to plan for it (sort of), but does certainly put a damper on our house hunting search. Over the weekend, we made our peace with being renters for a bit longer and decided that it was one of those "meant to be" sort of situations.

 Then, this morning, while writing my calendar for my students I realized that I'm over a week late. 

And am now terrified.

We are not in any way shape or form planning on getting pregnant right now. 

So...I suppose...what should I do? Am I freaking out for no reason? Is anyone else in a similar situation or have they been?

Arg! I feel like a nutcase. 

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  • nice to hear from you! 

     I'm a bit confused by your post....are you pregnant?! 

     

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  • I suppose that was a lot of unclear information.

    I do not know yet, but I am sort of freaking out. I don't want to alarm DH if I'm just getting bent out of shape because I'm a few days late.

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  • I'd tell H I was over a week late and get a test tonight. Morning pee is the best to test, so I'd do it in the morning. I don't think you're over-reacting since it is over a week. It's not like a day, a week would FREAK me out.</

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  •  Don't freak out just yet! Take a pregnancy test before you freak out.  If you don't trust pregnancy tests, have you're doctor do a blood test. It's up to you if you want to tell h about taking the test.  Obviously if it's positive you woul
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  • First of all, have you taken a pregnancy test yet?  You may be freaking out about nothing.

    I sort of was where you were last November.  DH and I both wanted kids, and we had been talking a bit about when to start trying.  We were g

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  • Just take a test tomorrow morning and tell him about it later.  That was my plan for my scare, but I told DH about it while watching TV, the words just fell out of my mouth.

    I've had a freak out since the wedding.  I

  • I agree with PPs. You should take a test tomorrow morning.

    Do you chart your Basal Body Temp to pinpoint ovulation or do you just go off of your "regular" cycle? If you don't chart, it's possible that you Ovulated later than usual, causing your p

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  • you should test when u can. Imy current pregnancy was completely unexpected! i was on birth control and i found out in september. with a toddler and a wedding just a month away it was BAD timing!! I'll admit, initially we did freak out but we put faith in
  • Thanks for the pep talk, ladies. I talked to H last night and he told me to calm down, take some deep breaths, and talk about everything that was worrying me. So I did. And he listened. And we joked. Going to test over the weekend he can be there with

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  • Look forward to hearing the results! and thanks for the house comment:)
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  • So glad that you talked to him!! Keep us posted and good luck! :)
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