I have been lurking on this board for a few weeks and it is really inpiring me. I hope it is okay that I post my monthly budget to get some feedback. Thanks.
Dh take home pay: 2000 (rrsp taken out already)
My take home pay: 1000 (I work shifts around dh so we don't pay daycare)
Fixed:
mortgage 1406.10
Car insurance 131.58
Car license 6.00 (saved monthly to pay once a year)
House Ins 76.13
Life Ins 46.35
Natural gas 87.00
Hydro 130.00
Water 50
Tv/internet 62 (in 2 yea4 contract to get 20% off internet if we keep basic cable)
Cellphone 40
Netflix 7.95
Debt:
Payment to mom $100 (15, 000 debt at 5% for a huge lose when selling previous house)
Home buyers plan $75 (10, 021 at 0% but not making money in rrsp until paid back)
Bank fees: 8.95 (just switched one acct over to a free chequing account to see if we like the new bank, if we do we will also switch this account)
Varibles:
Diapers 42
Hair 60 (hair cuts, dye - thinking of trying out the hair school which would cut this down to 30)
Gas 100
Fast food 20 (coffee and pizza occassionally
Groceries 320
Other 40
This leaves only 64.99 for big purchases and savings.
We also recieve $155/mth baby bonus which I try to save for ds but usually ends up being used for big purchases like his bedroom suite, upgrades to the house etc.
We currently have no emergency fund.
Re: Budget overview
You are house poor. When you add all housing expenses you have 62% of your income going to housing ---- and that does not include internet/cable, next filcks. I do not see a line item for property taxes or maintenance/decorationg/furniture etc.
STOP upgrading your house. Live with it is for now and SAVE - you are going to need that emergency fund. You are one unexpected life event away from financial disaster.
Read Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey and Smart Couples Finish Rich by David Bach.
Fund NEEDS ony right now -- so no eating out, stop coloring hair etc.
I am going to agree with PP. It sounds like you are house poor. What was the home buyers plan for? If you are paying $75/month on it, and in that meantime you are not making money in rrsp until it is paid back. By my calculations, it will be paid back in 11 years. That's a long time to be waiting to focus on adding to retirement.
The amount you borrowed from your mom on the loss of your previous home is going to take you about 13 years to pay back. At this point, making more money is going to be your best option. Take more shifts at work even if you have to pay a babysitter, do a direct sales business (pampered chef, mary kay, etc), deliver pizza's, bartend, anything. Begin a $1k Efund, then focus on paying off the debt. I would also recommend selling your home and moving into one that is 25% your takehome pay.
Also cut out coloring your hair and fast food. And save that baby bonus for an emergency fund instead of upgrading the house and his bedroom.
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Thanks for all of ghe feedback. You all said pretty much what I was already thinking.
The home buyers plan was used for the downpayment on our previous house (before we got smart enough to save first then buy). I am thinking after we get a small emergancy fund going that should be paid off first then my mom right so that we can be investing for our retirement. Would you agree?
I will be taking over a few more shifts at work in august and beyond. I had given them up as working opposite shifts and never having a day home as a family was ruining my marriage and my relationship as a family. We were pretty much living as single parents in the same house with the way we were handing ds off to each other as we switched shifts. That will add an additional $240 to the budget.
I agree my mortgage is way to high. It also includes the property tax. We have 2 years left in our term though. We bought this house when I was working full time. And plan on working full time again in 2 years. So we just need to make it to there
Dh does get a few bonuses a year. Would you put thisin the emergancy fund, against the debit or the mortgage? I
Have you cancelled your gym membership? Time to do so if not already done. Walk, run, get work out DVDs from your library.
You do not have to buy pricey kids furniture, You can buy a solid wood set (or individual pieces) on Craigslist, estate sales etc. cheap. Sand and paint - and they look new. Same with kids clothes and toys. You do NOT have to buy new.
You are not a better parent because you spend alot of money on your children.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Are you a two car family with both cars paid off? If so, then I would sell one car while you're both working on separate schedules. Then, use the proceeds to start your e-fund and apply any extra to debt. That should also lower your monthly car insurance.
I would also cut out all of the luxuries like fast food, hair coloring, new stuff for the house, cable, etc. That would go a long way to increasing your e-fund.
@MrNibbles
Idon't have a gym membership, havent in years as I know we can't afford it. And we buy almost everything for ds used. I agree that most things for kids don't need to be bought new as you are just paying for the packaging pretty much. We also got a lot of close for him as hand me downs.
His bedroom set we bought on a fantastic sale. I had noidea how much pstores wanted for kids furniture until we went shopping! We ended up getting a solid wood aet that will last him till he moves out for under $600, and used a bonus to buy it. We already had a hand me down mattress and he is getting bedding for his birthday from my mom.
I agree, spoileddoesn't mean your a better parent.nIn
We do have two cars, but his is a work vechile. It is paid for by his work incl insurance amd gas. But because it is a work vehicle I can't use it for my errands or work, he needs to have it available to him 24/7. We do use it if he is with us for errands or anything else we are doing which cuts down on gas. My cqr insurance comes up in august so I plan to shop around and try and find a better deal, I find $130 ridiculous for the small amount I drive.
Regarding my hair I think I shoukd add that the moneyincludes my husbands haircuts as well. And I dye my hair at home out of a $6 box every 8 weeks. If I didnt dye it I would have been grey at 20, I have bad hair genes, now at 30 I am getting pretty white. But I am looking at a hair school for haircuts for $20 instead of the current $55. And I go every 6 to 8 weeks because my hair grows to fast. I used to have it longer so I would only go every 6 months but wanted a change.
is so good to hear that I should be saving ds baby bonus is our general efund. I have had guilt about using "his" money for our bigger planned purchases. I said above his bedroom set was from a binus but now that I am thinking about it more it was out of ds money. That bonus was used on a cheap gazebo so we can olay outside but out of the sun.
ugh, it ia so hard to get out of the "we work hard we should be able to buy stuff" mindset. But we really need to get it together. Last month I hurt my shouldar badly and had to work through the pain because we don't have an efund.
Omg, I'm rich! Lol just joking. But I did forget to double the savings on here. My budget at home is divided into the first and second half of the month. And I did mess up the math!
I still feel a bit guilty about uaing the baby bonus for our debt and efund. don't know why. I just feel like that is his money. But im going to stick it into our efund for now, along with this $190 and hopely I will have the efund at 1k within 4 months!
With the home buyers plan, I know we could just pay the taxes on theincome now. But I feel like having it come out of the account now makes it seem more urgent and therefore we can get it making money for us again sooner rather then later.
Looks like the efund will be set by the end ofAugust and then the home buyers will start getting $425/mth.tI