Buying A Home
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Buying Process

DH and I currently rent a 3 bedroom apartment that we are content with for time being and want to buy a house.  We are working on saving up a dp and I have ideas as to what our house budget should be and we would like to start a needs and wants list for our house.  I like to scan the market from time to time to see what is in our price range and if it fits our needs and wants list.  I think if we go to a few open houses on properties in our price range to get ideas on what we can truly afford and get that it would be productive.  What do you think about this or should I hold off any house hunting/open houses until we have a dp saved up and/or pre-approved for a home. 

Re: Buying Process

  • We did pretty much exactly that.  We had an idea of what we could afford to buy at that time but wasn't sure if that was going to buy us enough house to grow into for the next 10 years or if we should wait a few more years, save up more and wait until we could afford more house.  So we went to see what houses in our price range were like.  So we went to a few open houses and realized that the houses we could afford then were exactly what we needed to start a family, so it helped us decide to move ahead with our plan of buying a house within a year, it also was great as we met a wonderful realtor who really helped us learn about the process and what we needed to do, even though we were going to be buying for months.  Open houses can be a great way to determine if what you can afford is what you need.  But if you are just starting to save up for a DP and aren't planning on buying for 2-3 years, I'd wait as the market is going to change.
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  • I'd definitely start looking now, just to see what the market is like in your area. You will be able to start getting an idea of what you do and don't want, and also what those things cost. Depending on your market, however, you want to make sure that you don't fall in love with a house that might sell before you are ready to buy! 

    We are going through house hunting right now (long distance - moving about 500 miles away) and started about 6 months before our move date. We are taking one last trip in a few weeks to take the final steps before we put in an offer. Our pre-approval is good for 90 days; typically, they are 60-90 days. I can't tell you what the house budget should be, but I think a general rule of thumb is 25-35% of your income, depending on other debts that you might have (student loans, credit cards, child support, stuff like that). 

  • MrsS728MrsS728 member
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    Start looking now so you can get an idea of what your money will get you. Make saving for a house your top priority. We live well below our means in order to save for our DP. My husband and I just bought a house on Saturday (well our offer was accepted!) and we've been unofficially looking for a year. Use Zillow.com. We kept an eye on houses and went to open houses last fall before we were ready to purchase. Once we were ready we got a buyer's agent (you need them to get you into the houses) plus they advocate for YOU. House hunting usually takes 6-9 months. We were lucky that it only took us 2 1/2 months from the time we got our agent, but we were also looking at 5-7 houses a week.
  • ruthevans41ruthevans41 member
    10 Comments
    edited October 2013
    I don't believe that you are jumping the gun here. I know that my real estate firm, Capital Residential Group, does a Free Homebuyer Consultation. During this consultation they listen to exactly what you are looking for and give advice on how to move forward. If you are located near Massachusetts, I definitely recommend them. If not, contact a local broker and see what they have to say.

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