October 2011 Weddings
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

So sad.

Well, I can't sleep so thought I would fill you in. DH and I are getting up at 430 this morning to go to the hospital for a D&C. I had an appt with my OB yesterday that confirmed baby A had too passed. By their calculations, probably a few hours after B passed last week. While we were told that A would probably pass when B does, still doesn't make it any easier. Hoping tomorrow goes okay.. I usually have a hard time recovering after being put to sleep. But since I can't sleep now I'm laying in bed, listening to the storm (which I hate), watching miss congeniality... Trying to relax. Thank you ladies for all the support you've shown me the past few weeks. It means alot. Sorry for the random thoughts of this post.. My mind is all over the place.

Image and video hosting by TinyPic
TTC since March 2012
BFP 3/14/13!!!
U/S 4/15: Identical twins!
Lost my angel boys at 10.5 weeks
My Chart***My TTC blog
Anniversary

Re: So sad.

  • Ugh Ky....my heart is breaking for you. Hugs and lots of t&ps to you, your husband and your family.  I can't imagine what you must be going through. 

  • Oh no Ky! I logged in this morning, and I saw the thread title and dreaded opening it :-( Hugs and lots of t&ps to you and your family. Like Jurbs said, I cannot imagine what you are going through. I'll be thinking of you this morning.
    Anniversary

    image

    TTC since June 2012

  • Oh God! I am so sorry Ky! No one can know what you're going through, but just know that we're here for you if/when you want to talk. Also, I've had a D&C and if you have any questions about it, post-op stuff or such, just PM me. *hugs*
  • LCostelLCostel member
    Third Anniversary 100 Comments Name Dropper
    Ky I'm so sorry. I know nothing we say can make this any better, just know that we're all here for you and thinking about you and your H and praying that you guys get the strength and everything else you need. So so sorry.
    Anniversary

    image

  • I'm so sorry, I've been following everything in your blog and really praying for you. :(
  • sdose13sdose13 member
    Fourth Anniversary 100 Comments 5 Love Its Name Dropper
    I'm so sad and sorry for you, Ky. I was really rooting for you and Baby A. I really don't know what to say at times like this, but I am definitely thinking and praying for you.
    image
  • Oh honey, I am so, so sorry.  Sending virtual hugs your way.  I was so hoping that Baby A would pull through.

    My heart is breaking for you right now.  You know that we are here if you need to talk.

    And on the positive side, you DID conceive, so when you are ready to get back to it, it can happen again (but hopefully with a better outcome).

    Lilypie First Birthday tickers

  • I am so, so sorry, Ky. My t&p are with you.


    imageimage


    image

  • So very sorry to hear this.  Thinking of you guys.  I can't imagine the hurt you are both feeling right now.

  • I've been following your blog and updates. I cried reading your latest post. I am so sorry this happened. I will be praying for you and your H.

    We are all here for you if you ever want to talk, complain, vent, anything. Don't think it's bothering any of us. We are here for you!

  • ajpufkyajpufky member
    Fourth Anniversary 100 Comments 25 Love Its Name Dropper
    So sorry to hear the news, I just read your post from yesterday on your blog. The poem is perfect, baby A and baby B are always going to be watching over you. Thinking about you and your husband during this time. We're all here if you ever need to talk.
    Anniversarymy read shelf:
    Amanda P's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)
  • So so sorry for your loss - you and your husband are in my T&P.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way.
    Anniversary Birthday
  • I'm sorry it has taken me so long to respond to this post, but it has taken me three days to get through reading your blog post b/c I become a crying, blubbering mess. I have been rooting for you and your DH since day one, and this whole situation makes my heart ache for you. Ky, I am so, so, so sorry for your losses. I absolutely can not imagine the pain you must be going through, and I know that there is absolutely nothing I can say or do that can make that pain go away. Please know that, though it will never disappear, the hurt does soften a bit, but it just takes some time. Your strength through this entire situation is just absolutely amazing, and I truly admire how honest you've been with your feelings and how well you've handled these devastating losses. You determination is incredibly inspiring, and I applaude you for handling the circumstances as well as you have. Your family and your LOs are in my thoughts and prayers, and I'm sending tons of love your way XOXO
  • erolliserollis member
    1000 Comments Fifth Anniversary 25 Love Its Name Dropper
    All I can give you is a shoulder to cry on, an ear that listens and a heart that feels for you. **hugs**
  • ky29ky29 member
    500 Comments Third Anniversary 5 Love Its Name Dropper
    Thank you ladies for all the support.  It's been a rough few days, but I'm getting back into my normal routine & that is definitely helping.

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    TTC since March 2012
    BFP 3/14/13!!!
    U/S 4/15: Identical twins!
    Lost my angel boys at 10.5 weeks
    My Chart***My TTC blog
    Anniversary

Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards