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Saving for College

How much do you guys save per month for your child's college education?

Re: Saving for College

  • I'm going to sound bad but we would rather fund our retirement right now so we don't fund her college.  We both paid for college ourselves and think it's an important thing for kids to do.  I can't even imagine how much college will be for her, I'm sure sky high.
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    I'm going to sound bad but we would rather fund our retirement right now so we don't fund her college.  We both paid for college ourselves and think it's an important thing for kids to do.  I can't even imagine how much college will be for her, I'm sure sky high.

    You can go to college websites that you would consider her going to and then go HERE and it should give you a good idea of how much that college will cost when she's old enough to attend.  Of course you'll only get an estimate, but it'll give you something to start from.  We plan on our kids going to 2 years of community college then transferring to a local 4 university.  For DS1 (5.5) the estimated expense for all 4 years was $67k.  For our twins (3.5) to start just 2 years later it went up to $76k.  We don't have a certain amount we save for their college per month/per year, we deposit around $5k/year and in a few years we'll be able to deposit a large lump sum that will help fund it tremendously. 

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  • I'm going to sound bad but we would rather fund our retirement right now so we don't fund her college.  We both paid for college ourselves and think it's an important thing for kids to do.  I can't even imagine how much college will be for her, I'm sure sky high.
     
    I sort of agree with the above. I was single when I had my first child, and while his dad paid child support, it was only enough to cover our expenses. I had a second child and while her Dad still supplies some of her expenses, we split her tuition at a local community college which doesn't cost much. While we push her for a 4 year degree, it doesn't appear she's interested in spite of our protestations to the contrary.
     
    If a couple is in a financial position to set aside money for their children's college tuition, then I applaud that. Being able to assist your kids with this important cost is wonderful, even if you can't foot the bill entirely. It was not an option with me. My son was fortunate enough he was smart and got a 4 year Presidential scholarship free ride to a very good state college. He went into debt for his Master's, attending an expensive college in the DC area, but that was his adult choice.  
     
    If it's not possible to set aside enough money for both, start with the greatest intent for your retirement with your child's college second. You can do 2/3 into retirement and 1/3 into college funds IMO.
     
     
  • I agree with the take care of retirement before you start college savings. Having said that though, in July we will start contributing $250 to a college savings account for our little one. We will probably also put part of DH's bonus (on years he gets one) into the account to help it add up quicker, but we feel pretty good about the $250. We aren't intending upon fully funding college, just funding maybe 1/2. I had too many friends who got college paid for and therefore did stupid stuff like not going to class. I'm afraid that if a kids knows that we will be paying the whole ride, he may not take it seriously. Maybe that will change as the kid grows up!
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  • We save $50 per month each for the 2 kids. One set of g-parents pay into the 529s also on a quarterly basis to lower their own tax burden...we didn't ask them to, they approached us about it.

    Our third baby will get the same thing.

    Our college cost philosophy is that it's icing on the cake. We want to cover our retirements before college costs.

    Also, we see value in the children paying some of their own way too (when you pay for something on your own, rather than having it handed to you, you tend to appreciate it more).

  • Currently - $0 per month

    We have 3 things to do before we start any college savings, finish paying off debt, play catch up on retirement savings, and buy a home. We should start saving something in about 3 years. It still wont be much at that point.

    We plan to help a little, but that's it. I don't feel guilty. Not having to take care of your parents when they get old is better than having college paid for.  

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  • We are currently saving $225 every two weeks.  That will be somewhere in the $100,000 range by the time he's ready to start college.  That doesn't neccessarily mean that I'll be contributing that much towards his college education.  In fact, I probably won't even tell him that the money is there until after college graduation.  Let him figure out a way to pay for it himself and make the money a graduation gift.  Likewise, if he decides to go into a trade instead, I might help out with his first house rather than a college education. 

    I've looked at all the online calculators, and I just don't believe that college prices can keep rising at 7%+ each year indefinitely.  By those calculations, a college that costs $5,000 a semester tuition this year will be somewhere in the $15,000-$17,000 a semester range in 18 years.  Add to that the cost of living and college will just be too expensive for many people.  Colleges are going to price themselves out of the market and the student loan market will implode the way the housing market did except with no way to walk away from SL debt.

  • In addition I would consider setting up a UPromise account. You basically attach your credit cards, and store accounts to the site and earn a percentage off purchases you make.  I made one for myself even though I am out of college already, and I've gotten a few 100 dollars just from doing my regular shopping through the site, and I can have it transferred directly to my student loans. I would imagine if you set one up now for a child you could get a decent amount by the time they were in college.
  • Thanks for all of the input and ideas ... We have our retirement savings each month set, so we're looking at saving 200-300 per month once we have a LO.  We are hoping to get pregnant soon, but are thinking about how our finances will change once we have one... :)
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