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best friend's wedding

So I am welcomed to my companion's wedding. He has requested that me be the best man of the wedding. On the other hand, his wife is somebody I truly have an issue with. I truly can't help contradicting this wedding. In my conclusion, this marriage will just ruin his existence and his standpoint on dating. At any rate, this string is not for me to tirade about how shitty of a life accomplice she is.... this string is about me and my quandary in choices

In this way, I truly disdain to stand behind something I positively distrust in. I have no issue standing up my brain, so this part of me would like to head off to the wedding.

An additional part, I accept I ought to be there for my best amigo. This is His wedding, this is His event to be cheerful. So I ought to be there to praise that delight.

I am torn between these two schools of musings. Help?
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Re: best friend's wedding

  • You need to be there for your friend. You may not like the woman he is marrying, but you ARE his best friend and he wants you to be there.

    You can not predict the future: how do you know their marriage will crash and burn and/or "ruin [your friend's] existence? It is not fair of you to make that assumption.

    If you do not go support him, his wife may take that as an opportunity to get him to drop you as a friend. Heck, if MY best friend didn't want to be in my wedding becuase she didn't like the person I was marrying- I would be livid and would drop her myself.

    Be there for your friend. If you have to make a toast: put on a happy face and talk about how happy you are for him AND his wife.

    GL

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  • I'm thinking this is thinly-disguised spam.
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  • I agree with Greco1014. As I was reading this I kept thinking this reminds me a lot of the stuff I get in my spam comments on my blog. No offense to OP but it was worded very strangely. 
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  • Also, in case this isn't spam...

     

    You need to be there for your friend. I do not care for the person my BF is marrying but I am her MOH because I love her and will always support her decisions. Even if I don't agree with them. That's what friends should do for one another.  

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  • I don't think it's spam, but I'm quite certain English is not OP's first language. The phrasing screams translator program or dictionary.
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    You have 2 choices - suck it up and go and maintain the friendship or don't go and ruin the friendship.  Sometimes in life you have to go with the lesser of 2 evils. 

  • If this is not spam:

    Stand by your pal.

    If this is spam:

    Kindly leave this board. And delete before a moderator does.
  • imageGreco1014:
    I'm thinking this is thinly-disguised spam.

    I think you hit the nail squarely on the head.  I found another post by this 'person' on another board to be quite oddly worded so had to see what else this 'person' had to offer.  Spam spam spam and more spam.  As if there isn't enough spam on the nest these days.

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