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TMI Tuesday

It's been too quiet around here! Spill it ladies! Open floor.. 
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  • I don' really know if it is TMI but I am noticing that my stress level is directly linked to our sex life. As soon as I got back to work, after vacation, I was like, not now. I feel so badly for H. When I am relaxed? Let's get it on! I am supposed to go off my MS medicine next month so we can start TTC in like September or October. I feel like I need a massage and some meditation so I can get back to some semblance of normal. For both of us!
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  • I worry a lot that we don't have it enough but both of us do not have very high drives, so I guess if we are both happy with it , it shouldn't be an issue...but I hear other people say how many times and Im like WHAT?!?! haah!  

    We are very affectionate towards each other and get along awesome so I try to to feel pressure of other peoples "number" ha! 

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  • H and I have been totally out of sync with each other in that dept lately. It seems like when one of us is in the mood, the other isn't. I'm not quite sure how to fix it either. 
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  • H is almost always in the mood and I'm not so much. Lately it's more or less been uncomfortable for me. So we finally did it the other night and it was great but it seems to be quicker sessions than normal for us. I keep telling him I will understand if he does it himself but he says when your married you shouldn't do that anymore.
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    I worry a lot that we don't have it enough but both of us do not have very high drives, so I guess if we are both happy with it , it shouldn't be an issue...but I hear other people say how many times and Im like WHAT?!?! haah!  

    We are very affectionate towards each other and get along awesome so I try to to feel pressure of other peoples "number" ha! 

    Whenever I hear someone say they have sex more than once a day (or even once a day) my first reaction is that I don't believe them, and then I wonder if it is true how they have time to do anything else with their lives.

    H & I have also been on out of sync recently. He seems to only get in the mood on his days off from work, which I can't blame him for because he's on his feet 12+ hours a day. However, he hasn't been taking days off!! I think I'm just going to have to tie him to the bed one morning. That's actually not a bad idea...

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  • In the sex department... we've done it like twice in the last month..that's terrible. I've told him sex is fine right now. It will not hurt the baby. But I honestly haven't been in the mood at ALL. Poor hubby. But if he ever 'signals' that he needs it I am more then happy to do it.. Just because I'm pregnant doesn't mean he should not be having sex with his wife!

     

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  • Do it while you can!  I have been on "pelvic rest" from the doctor for 4 weeks now.  We have another 4 weeks before they check again and see if I can come off.  No sex with DH is not fun!
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  • Sorry ladies...I have been just working and when not working..im nose into a book on the kindle more so then on internet...im boring Lol...im trying to get back into responding to posts on here..I read daily...just haven't had any gumption to post.

    Anywho.....

    UGH  seriously?? Where do those people find the time to have that much sex?   we are lucky to do it once a week :(    To me its the normal anymore...but if im talking to anyone about it...they get bug eyes and go how the hell is it that little bit?   My boss (who im very open with haha ..was in our wedding)...just shakes her head and goes being married isn't an excuse...which I agree..but at same time I disagree....we are comfy with what we do...being married actually to me helps you not need it as often in a weird way I guess...Im just happy cuddling on couch or in bed and falling asleep in his arms....

    Yes I want to have more sex...and I have been trying to instigate it more often cuz we are just both so tired of the stress from our jobs....but what can ya do ya know? at least when we do..its HOTT  hehe :)

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    Do it while you can!  I have been on "pelvic rest" from the doctor for 4 weeks now.  We have another 4 weeks before they check again and see if I can come off.  No sex with DH is not fun!

    Seriously! Once the baby started kicking around in there, I was so weirded out by sex. We didn't do it for awhile and then you have to wait 6 weeks after you give birth so the time adds up. Get it in now while you can! 

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