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Oh honey. He's not going to change. Even if he goes to a couple sessions, he'll either put on a show for the therapist AND/OR he'll ignore her advice AND/OR he'll pick it apart an… (View Post)

Sure, she sounds possibly insecure. And also like she's TRYING to get along w/ her FIs family, including his sister (oh, the horror!). This doesn't excuse YOUR behavior at all. You were inc… (View Post)

I agree w silly - I imagine they kept it from you because of your situation Have a celebration. You don't need your step dad or the ashes. You really don't. Have a celebration w people who … (View Post)

And there is a chance she realized this, felt it was because she was there, and tried to help mitigate the work. It's still pushy to totally take over a holiday meal. I don't want to total… (View Post)

I think you have to let your sister go - at least for awhile. As said, your mom uses her as a pawn. NOthing will ever change if you keep giving in because of your sister. And honestly- you're te… (View Post)