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In my case it was a combination of things. We probably didn't date long enough before we got married, and we were quite young (23 & 25). We had both dated a lot of people, and ours was so m… (View Post)

The minister's cat read Xenocide. (View Post)

Okay, this is totally a shameless plug, but I love DonorsChoose and one of my very good friends from childhood has launched a request to try to inspire a love of reading in her middle school students… (View Post)

Marriage doesn't have to take hard work. I used to say this to myself to feel better. We had some very good times, and then we would fight. Sorely and bitterly. But marriage is hard work, right… (View Post)

@Pool34, I would strongly encourage you to try couples counseling or even individual counseling. When my H refused to go to counseling with me, I went by myself. I learned a tremendous amount about t… (View Post)