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You mean rational adults don't decide on the spur of the moment during a vacation to get married when they've only been dating for 8 months?! But that's so romaaaaaantic! It must be th… (View Post)

As an expat, this is pretty common among my friends. (Throw in not being able to speak the language or get a job, and it gets even worse!) the advice most people give to unhappy trailing expat spouse… (View Post)

I agree with PPs. Not enough couples time and guitar hobby may seem related because they both involve how he spends his time, but correlation is not causation. They are probably not related, and blam… (View Post)

Also, could you explain how you did that? Genuinely curious. Was it a quick text to say, "Hey! Now that I'm a married woman, we can't be friends anymore. Good luck with life!" or… (View Post)

You feel that it's not appropriate. Presumably your husband feels differently. This is why it's so important to sit down and talk about the hard questions before you decide on the spur of … (View Post)